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Jumbles Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:02 PM

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Espo22 Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:06 PM

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try not to stress it that much. I am sure it will work out fine. And as far as details or anything of their wedding just don't get too involved.

Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:08 PM

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yeah...that would piss me off too!!! That kinda $ucks...

Jumbles Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:10 PM

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Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:11 PM

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ok that's crossing a line! My MOH and I are planning our weddings together but we're keeping everything very much separated...I don't even necessarily want to use the same vendors...picking the same colors is just catty...regulate that sh!t! LOL

Jumbles Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:13 PM

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Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:18 PM

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EXACTLY!!! Its jsut a matter of common courtesy. My FH's brother is getting married in August of 07 and I can't get her to let us know anything...I really don't want to plan everything and then look like we're copying them...they've been together 2 1/2 years...FH and I ahve been together almost 7 1/2...I've been waiting a very long time and I'll be pissed if i plan something and it ends up being the same. We don't even know where it is because they won't tell us...AND FH IS ONE OF THE GROOMSMEN!!!!

Jumbles Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:23 PM

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MikeandJess Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:44 PM

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girls are the worst (not you girls though). Just try to keep her as far away from the details of your wedding as possible.

Espo22 Posted: Dec 21, 2006 07:55 PM

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Posted by MikeandJess

girls are the worst (not you girls though). Just try to keep her as far away from the details of your wedding as possible.

yeah i agree, don't let her know anything. If she asks you, say we haven't decided yet.

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Dec 21, 2006 08:14 PM

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Posted by nikki1025

i mean their place only hold 160 and ours holds 280 so of course we are gonna invite more extended fam but it does get annoying , like i picked out my BM dresses and she knew the color i wanted well guess what she has the same color , i think she is very competative

that's ridiculous ...

we were engaged last dec, we're having our wedding in june of 2008

my one cousin got engaged in late sept 07 & is having a destimation wedding in Jan. of 08

her sister got engaged in Oct, & is also having an 08 wedding,( tho their not sure when )

My brother & his GF started shopping early fall & now my brother thinks he's gonna wait 'ro pop the question , b/c he doesn't wanna jump on the band wagon', But he said he didn't want to steal anyone's thunder, .....

I feel a lil weird like I wanna hit bridal shows w/ my cousins but I don't want to shatr ideas b/c I don't want them to use them too, ( I'm pathetic, One is getting married before me & the other doesn't know when she's geting married... We're June so there's a 50/ 50 chance that they both will get married before me & I don't want them to do somthing that I have my heart set on doing & by the time the family(guest) see them they're old news, , It's so petty I'm pathetic

snowcutie82 Posted: Dec 21, 2006 08:40 PM

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Posted by nikki1025

the only good thing is that mine is first so she will look like she is biting off of me

exacttly....its annoying but at least youre first!!!! why would she want to do what u do??? id want to have my ownnn stuff and try to like do something different. and obv not plan it so close...but dont worry about it!

my good friend and i are getting married the same yr...but her's is in march and mine is in nov...so we're okay. we have different tastes anyway so that helps!

megzzie Posted: Dec 21, 2006 09:06 PM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by MikeandJess

girls are the worst (not you girls though). Just try to keep her as far away from the details of your wedding as possible.

yeah i agree, don't let her know anything. If she asks you, say we haven't decided yet.

It stinks that it has to be like that, but I agree.

MillerFord742008 Posted: Dec 21, 2006 09:11 PM

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Girl if it gets to much back off! Because then they wont plan like that because your doing it!

forwork91 Posted: Jan 09, 2007 10:35 AM

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Autumn08 Posted: Jan 09, 2007 10:44 AM

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I would be careful with this. You guestlists are allowed to be different. These are two different weddings. I'd be careful with comparing the two weddings. Two separate events. I understand the costs for you to be in each others bridal parties but as for guest lists.... each should do as they want.

Julybride08 Posted: Jan 09, 2007 10:47 AM

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by MikeandJess

girls are the worst (not you girls though). Just try to keep her as far away from the details of your wedding as possible.

yeah i agree, don't let her know anything. If she asks you, say we haven't decided yet.

I agree!!! I wouldn't tel her anything. and I would invite whom ever you want.. Don't not invite someone cause they don't want to.

cherish83 Posted: Jan 09, 2007 10:50 AM

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I was kinda in the same boat. We got engaged Christmas eve of 05 and booked the Hall the end of march for April 25th. FH's cousing got engaged in April and set her place for May 5th. Now my cousin and her bf who talk about their wedding (her bf is proposing in March) plan on a march wedding. Are you kidding? DO people have any sense as to what it will do to the families. Luckily FH and I have decided to push back the wedding to save money for ourselves so now there is no problem for the families.