I had a couple coming from out of town who RSVP'd 'yes', then proceed to come to the church ceremony of my wedding but not the reception since 'they didn't know anyone.' (PS she told me this reason the morning after my wedding when I texted her all worried something happened to them since they didn't show up)..
Shouldn't they have RSVP'd 'no?' I haven't heard from this person since...perhaps I 'sounded' a little peeved in my text since I was like 'what happened?' and then didn't really respond to her silly excuse. I was really hurt and now I'm angry. It's really bugging me...even a month later, ha! OK I feel better now..
Thanks ladies!
Iluvpoodles
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That's odd. Yeah usually when you're not attending the reception you rsvp no.
Lsorrent
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I would rsvp no for that, but since they're OOT maybe they don't know?
Clover23
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id be bothered too... ur not weird
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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that is soooo friggen weird!! who does that! absolutely should've responded no! who takes a head count for the ceremony??
omg im like in shock. fh and i have been to soooo many events where we knew no one!! but we went to support the other people and were so happy and proud to be there. we had each other there. and basically, that's all we ever need!!
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they should've rsvp'd no ... and said 'but hey can we come to the ceremony?'
but you know... its over with.
don't let this bother you. i'd make a point to get in touch with the person and let them know that things are cool. not by discussing the situation but rather by letting them see/hear that there's no problem... by NOT discussing it.
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that's odd... and also ridic. they're a COUPLE - who cares if they didn't know anyone?!?
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I agree with everyone else, that is really odd of them. Also, did anyone else mention that I'm thinking you still had to PAY for them, right? I think the fact that I had to pay for them would make me the most angry. . . BUT the fact that they did come from OOT to go to the ceremony would make me not quite as mad. I definitely don't think you're being weird.
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people are really odd... this has nothing to do with weddings, but i have a realllly good example for you! when i graduated from penn state my uncle came up. he stayed in the same hotel as my dad and grandma, but didn't leave with them. he texted my dad and said he was there so my dad told him where they were and he responded and said he was just going to stay at the top and would see us after. well after the ceremony, he just left! didn't say hi or anything!!! he came up for my graduation and didn't even say hi to me! i seriously have doubts that he even came!
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That is very odd...is it possible that they ran into someone at the ceremony that they didn't want to see anymore?
