Very informative.....Sorry it's long
Sorry you are going through this. You know, being friends with an ex really depends on the situation. If you feel threatened, then you need to either find a way to gain comfort or to ask him to stop seeing her. Understand though, that if he has a long term friendship with her and she is a long ago ex,they probably would have gotten back together by now if they still have it for each other. If she's a recent ex, and not really a friend, that's different. In any event, you need to keep in mind that he asked you, not her, to marry him.
I am going to a wedding at Leonard's on Oct. 22nd; I can give you a full report if you'd like.
