With a little less then 2 months I find my self overwhelmed..... Recap:
This past weekend come to find BM dress doesn't fit...Now one person we invited to the wedding RESPONDED with two people..... Don't people realize the invite is to them and them only!!!!!! I am so hating everyone right noW!!!!..
FMIL & FFIL doing the rehearsal dinner but refuse to pay for any liquor. They want soda only.... NOT HAPPENING....Maybe my parents shouldn't pay for their guests to eat..HMMM there's a thought! I am constantly complaining to FI and he doesn't want to hear it anymore and I just feeling like crying......
prncssrachel
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ThongLori
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everything finds a way of working itself out.. these things will too!! just concentrate on your hair and makeup and dress and how hot you're gonna look and you'll forget those troubles!!
112903
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Thanks ladies...Thonglori you certainly put a smile on my face
ThongLori
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good! seriously man, isn't the day all about how the bride looks anyway???
OCT1203
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Karalynne~ Take deep breathes and calm down!!! In the next 2 months you are going to go through alot of cr*p (believe me I know!!) and get into alot more little arguements with FH and want to kill everyone!! But just remember to look at FH and remember why you are both doing all of this.......
I honestly am at the point where I just can't wait for it do be all over and I think it is so sad to feel that way. When people ask me what I think about this or that ...I tell them I don't care anymore whatever they think...I am so sick of everything! It has come to what everyone else thinks is important to them and not to me and FH. I just want our lives to be normal again and for me not to hate everyone. Everything that can go wrong is lately but I just keep telling myself it is because i am going to have a perfect day and I am just getting it all out of the way now!
Take some time for yourself..get a massage or facial or maybe a movie or go for a drive...just do something where you can forget about the wedding even if it is only for an hour. You have to do that to keep sane!!
I am hear for you if you need to talk...I know I probably didn't help at all. I probably made you feel worse but I don't want to sugar coat it for you. Just think it will all be over soon and then you get to go on your HM !!!!
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Sweetie, you can only do your best to make everything work out right. Just realize some people actually break up over pre-wedding things b/c it's so complicated. I just think, if we can make it through this, then we can make it through everything. I don't think it ever works out perfectly for everyone.
aliciahelene
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Weddings are so friggin stressful!!! wE broke off our engagement becuase of it, but thank god taking a step back and re- assessing our situation has gotten us back on track!! Weddings are stressful without a doubt!!! Hang in there!!!!!
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less than two months to mine as well...and I am very stressed also....I would inform the person he or she isnt invited with a guest but that is just me....tell them that you have a max amount you can invite do to budget and you are sorry
MarciaD
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Maybe take a few days off of wedding tasks to de-stress.