how do u go about writing your own vows? what should be included...i know i have a while yet but i want to get started to make sure everything i want is included and they are perfect. also i am not goin to mention to my FH that i am doin this i want it to be kinda a surprise it that stupid? i think it would mean more if it was a surprise. i saw a post about vows but cant find it now.
we are doing our own vows too... i think thats sweet that you want to surprise him... but i think it would work better if he knew, and did his own too! jmo.
I don't think this should be a surprise thing, only becuase if he surprised me with his own vows it to me would be like when you agree not to get presents but then feel like an *** b/c they did. I think this is something you should both do if you do decide to do it
