are you and FH writing your own? I haven't decided yet...
davenjess
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SOoooooooooooooo bored today...i'm replying to everything right away :)
We were going to - but figured it was a LOT of pressure to do that...since it always seems to wait until the last thing, etc...
What we wound up doing was sitting down with our MAGNIFICENT Pastor, April & she asked us why we loved each other, etc & put that all into the ceremony, so it's very, very personalized...
yelley77
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Posted by davenjess
SOoooooooooooooo bored today...i'm replying to everything right away :)
We were going to - but figured it was a LOT of pressure to do that...since it always seems to wait until the last thing, etc...
What we wound up doing was sitting down with our MAGNIFICENT Pastor, April & she asked us why we loved each other, etc & put that all into the ceremony, so it's very, very personalized...
that's nice. As long as it is personalized, I don't think we will write our own vows...
davenjess
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It reallllllly is UBER personalized. I've only let one person read it and she loved it so much - she said it was so us she was shocked that that pastor wrote most of it!! I guess if you have the right person asking the right questions - it will be the way you want it to be. I knew from my first email with April that we'd love her...
mao0426
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FH doesn't want to KNOW that he is going to cry...so if we write our own he knows he will....and if we dont he thinks he just might cry lol
jgl
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we havent discussed it but I think we are going to do traditional vows. Plus i dont think FH or I would be comfortable with sharing how feelings for each other infront of family and friends.
Mizzdimple
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We dont get vows in a GO Church so i told him to write them for me anyway lol
yelley77
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FH doesn't want to KNOW that he is going to cry...so if we write our own he knows he will....and if we dont he thinks he just might cry lol
This is one of the reasons I DON'T want to write my own, I know I will be a mess!!! And if he writes his, oy vey- i'll be bawling....
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Posted by yelley77
Posted by mao0426
FH doesn't want to KNOW that he is going to cry...so if we write our own he knows he will....and if we dont he thinks he just might cry lol
This is one of the reasons I DON'T want to write my own, I know I will be a mess!!! And if he writes his, oy vey- i'll be bawling....
I am so in the same boat with you on that. Waterproof mascara!!!
mendi725
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I don't know yet-I'm going to say no for right now...
ElizA608
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Posted by ShiraLovesTommy
Posted by yelley77
Posted by mao0426
FH doesn't want to KNOW that he is going to cry...so if we write our own he knows he will....and if we dont he thinks he just might cry lol
This is one of the reasons I DON'T want to write my own, I know I will be a mess!!! And if he writes his, oy vey- i'll be bawling....
I am so in the same boat with you on that. Waterproof mascara!!!
i agree-- 1/2 of me would love it for the memories and just because it would be so personalized and beautiful.. but the other 1/2 doesnt really know!
Mici n KC
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Well FH said he didn't want to. I could go either way. But the way he wants to be involved with everything now, who knows
jennandrolo
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nope i dont like getting too personal in front of an audience. and i dont wanna be bawling like a baby.