Is anyone writing their own vows?..I want to be I'm to shy to read them myself....lol...I think I might be better off just repeating what my officiant says..lol but I think it's so nice when couples write their own.
i think its really nice when couples do that also....but we aren't...im not good at that so I wouldn't know what to say. and i dont need another thing to stress over!
I would love to write my own, but I'm a sap and don't think I'll be able to get through them without sobbing.
we're considering it...but we're both really shy and my fh is kind of an awful writer....so i'm a little worried about it. but part of me really doesn't like the idea of just reciting the same thing everyone else recites. i don't know.....all of these decisions!!!
We are going to write our own...although we haven't decided if we'll just write vows or we'll write something that each of us will repeat.
we are going to go the traditional route and repeat the vows. but since we have talked about writing them, i think we may exchange letters that morning or something...
Posted by miamimerger
FH and I wrote our own vows. We were kind of nervous to write them because: [1] I am a poet, and I was afraid everyone would expect some genius thing on paper form, and [2] FH was afraid his would be nothing in comparison to mine. Therefore, we decided to write ours together. We wrote it as a script as if we were having a normal conversation with one another. We are so happy with how they turned out, and Pastor April loves them too![]()
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Posted by little j
we are going to go the traditional route and repeat the vows. but since we have talked about writing them, i think we may exchange letters that morning or something...
I want to ...FH doesn't; I can't win this one... boooo
Posted by miamimerger
FH and I wrote our own vows. We were kind of nervous to write them because: [1] I am a poet, and I was afraid everyone would expect some genius thing on paper form, and [2] FH was afraid his would be nothing in comparison to mine. Therefore, we decided to write ours together. We wrote it as a script as if we were having a normal conversation with one another. We are so happy with how they turned out, and Pastor April loves them too![]()
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Our Officiant personalized our ceremony and our took our input to incorporate into the vows. We're going to repeat them, but it is all us.
