I just got my mock up from the person whos marrying us and I hate it- I feel like I am tearing it apart, and she's going to hate me. but i should do what I want right? someone please make me feel betterrrrr
AwaitingAugust
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it's your wedding ceremony - it's the most important part of the wedding!! you def need to tell her to change it.
maybe you can say 'i was hoping to go in a complete diff direction rather than be so traditional' ...?
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Posted by AwaitingAugust
it's your wedding ceremony - it's the most important part of the wedding!! you def need to tell her to change it.
maybe you can say 'i was hoping to go in a complete diff direction rather than be so traditional' ...?
Seriously!! It's your wedding! Do it like you want to!
CaseyNTim
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I just feel bad like I am just tearing it apart lol
AwaitingAugust
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did you ever speak to your officiant and figure this out?
CaseyNTim
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Well I sent her an email of all the changes and what I loved, but I only sent it on Friday so I haven't heard back from her, I have been feeling bad all weekend that I had said something, but I know that its so important but I just feel bad you know?
20mrsc10
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this is YOUR wedding..and the ceremony is the most important part...don't accept anything other than what you want
AwaitingAugust
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Well I sent her an email of all the changes and what I loved, but I only sent it on Friday so I haven't heard back from her, I have been feeling bad all weekend that I had said something, but I know that its so important but I just feel bad you know?
good to hear ... hopefully she'll send you a 2nd revision which is a thousand times better
don't feel bad .. part of her job is to write a ceremony that 'fits' you i'm sure she's not taking it personally or whatnot
