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Waaaaahh!! I don't want to part with my MONEY!!!

JimmysBride Posted:

Waaaaahh!! I don't want to part with my MONEY!!!

Well, I'm afraid the time has come.... The time has come for me to really start paying those vendors.... BUT I DON'T WANNAAAAA!!!!!


It's time for me to pay big chunks of cash out like 30% of this and 50% of that... my bank account is looking pretty healthy right now so it's not like I don't HAVE the money -- even though NONE of that money belongs to me anymore .... I don't want to let it go!!! I'm already sorta 'late' paying one vendor simply because I don't want to write the check

Help!!! I don't wanna paaaaaayyyyy!!!

Just had to whine a little about that. Anyone else feel this way when it comes time to pay?? I guess I just don't like paying for things and services I haven't received yet!

julz33 Posted:

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I feel the same way I like having a lot of money... between the wedding and house DP all our savings will be gone
DebsNY Posted:

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awww. i know how you feel! But just think - soon you'll have a beautiful wedding to show for it!
AJsMommy122 Posted:

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I know how you feel! thats why even though you think im crazy I have been paying it off little by little so that it wouldnt be all one huge chunk eventually. It makes it a little easier to let go of smaller payments every month or two. Instead of saving it and watching it grow and THEN giving it up.
JimmysBride Posted:

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

I know how you feel! thats why even though you think im crazy I have been paying it off little by little so that it wouldnt be all one huge chunk eventually. It makes it a little easier to let go of smaller payments every month or two. Instead of saving it and watching it grow and THEN giving it up.



You ARE crazy but that's beside the point. JK Ah, Maxine, showing she is wise beyond her years.... Eh, I guess we all gotta let it go sometime, some way!!
AJsMommy122 Posted:

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Posted by JimmysBride


Posted by Soon2bMsZ

I know how you feel! thats why even though you think im crazy I have been paying it off little by little so that it wouldnt be all one huge chunk eventually. It makes it a little easier to let go of smaller payments every month or two. Instead of saving it and watching it grow and THEN giving it up.



You ARE crazy but that's beside the point. JK Ah, Maxine, showing she is wise beyond her years.... Eh, I guess we all gotta let it go sometime, some way!!



Very true!! lol and I am NOT crazy!! Only when it comes to wedding planning
It will all be worth it... only TWO MORE MONTHS!!!
LadyPrincess Posted:

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very cute post !!

Bebalina Posted:

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But just think how healthy ur bank account will look when ppl give u a nice thick envelope as a wedding gift!!!
exotica776 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

I know how you feel! thats why even though you think im crazy I have been paying it off little by little so that it wouldnt be all one huge chunk eventually. It makes it a little easier to let go of smaller payments every month or two. Instead of saving it and watching it grow and THEN giving it up.



this is exactly what we have been doing, i know i should let it earn interest in MY account rather than all the vendors accounts, but i cant leave it sitting there, I am trying to get all my vendors down to about 250 owed for the day of the wedding so i wont have to deal with a lot of $$$ on me either! Every month i send a pmt to someone!!!! it makes me sad to spend like 2k a month lol but to build it up and then let it go would be even worse i think!!!! but at least u guys know u saved all that at one time, u can do it again!!!
SandraLynn Posted:

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I hear you, I don't want to part w/ it either!!! Could you imagine if I saved liked this all the time, wow....and we bought a house so every penny will be gone and our 'gifts' for our wedding will be for the new house, sooo that is gone too!!! eeeeks..!!! not a good feeling!

FLaCaTaCa Posted:

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I am with Maxine on paying it off little by little. I am sick to my stomach because my account NEVER looks healthy but in the end....I won't have the hebee jebee's when I have to write a check.

Pat is the one with the healthy account but he is also the one who will make all of the final payments. I don't even want to think about it!!!

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