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WARNING: EXTREME VENT!!!!!!

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

WARNING: EXTREME VENT!!!!!!

So I might have mentioned this to you guys before... Even if I did, I'm sure none of you remember, but....

I had talked about a gurl who I would have made my MOH but lately we kinda went our separate ways. So she only calls me when she needs something right? And I've spoke to her about it a few times, but she just dosnt take the hint... Honestly, is it even a hint if I spell it out for her that I cant stand when she does this and its not being a true friend?!?!

Last time I spoke to her, she wanted me to look something up on the comp for her... I said OK... and had no intention of calling her back... She called me like 2 more times that same day and I refused to answer the phone for her...

So just now, she texted me (yes, she cant even call me anymore) to go once again look somethin up for her... I am tired of being her slave and refuse to do this anymore... Do you think she'll get the hint? LOL

Sorry this is soo long... Its really meant just to be a vent... I'm not expecting everyone to read this and give advice... But if ya want to, you're more than welcome

I just dunno what to do anymore... Its sad that it has come to this and I am the lasssssst person you'd wanna 'use and abuse' cuz theres only sooo much **** I will deal with from you before I snap and go off on ya assss
lookitscassie Posted:

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ill be honest. i SUCKKKKK with deal with people problems. i just let things go. You did the right thing telling her how you feel.

she needs to back offff
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Sometimes I wish I could jus let things go, but daddy taught me otherwise... I watch my mom get walked all over and I feel bad for her so thats not gonna be me too...
Ann 52409 Posted:

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The only way she is going to get the 'hint' is if you stop doing things for her. You already told her how you felt and she is still calling and asking you things so now let her know you are serious.
If you guys have no relationship after you stop doing things for her that will show you what kind of friendship you really had anyway.
Dont let anyone take advantage of you !!!!!
little34 Posted:

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I think she might take the hint...but some times people like her will never get the hint...why don't you tell her how you feel... maybe that will help!

kabo0831 Posted:

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yes she needs to back off

FutureMrsC Posted:

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ugh....that is so frustrating. I had a friend like that (notice the HAD) and it is very upseting b/c someone you considered to be a good friend is basically using you. Sorry you have to deal with this!

JKFris09 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2bmrsP

The only way she is going to get the 'hint' is if you stop doing things for her. You already told her how you felt and she is still calling and asking you things so now let her know you are serious.
If you guys have no relationship after you stop doing things for her that will show you what kind of friendship you really had anyway.
Dont let anyone take advantage of you !!!!!



I agree you need to just quit cold turkey and stop helping her out.
TnJ041809 Posted:

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You definetly need to tell her what's going on or else it's never going to end and she will keep on asking you to do things for her. Tell her you feel it's all one sided and if she still just shrugs it off you know what your better without a friend like that!!

bluegreen08 Posted:

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80sBride Posted:

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you have to talk to her, by ignoring her your being just as bad as her, you have to confront the problems you have, not dodge them sorry just how I feel i have similar friends and you have to adress it and if it continues to be a one sided relationship then you have to tell her that its over...dump her lol

MzHopesAlot Posted:

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Hmm You have to be careful. My MOH is actually the complete opposite. She is USED AND ABUSED like you seem to have been. When I was reading, I thought of her right away.

YOure probably way too nice and so she takes that for advantage. Me, im the exact opposite. I do nothing for anyone EXCEPT those I care most about... and once it becomes being used I CUT ALL TIES because I will NOT end up like that.
But yeah, just dont be a door mat

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