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Was i wrong?

PapayaChic Posted:

Was i wrong?

ok, so we're trying to keep our wedding small and around 150 people

so we only invited aunts uncles, cousins, and close friends......

My mom begged for me to invite 3 of her aunts(MY SECOND AUNTS) so i gave in and did...
I even invited them to the shower...


Now get this. I just found out about this tonight.One of my second aunts has a 17 year old daughter. She was disgusted that i didnt invite her daughter to the shower and didnt respond. And now shes mad that i didnt invite her daughter to the wedding. she said 'how can i leave my 17 tear old daughter home all night while we're at a wedding'


***?!?! She's saying im rude and stuck up.
IM FUMING...first off, she's one of the few second aunts invited. None of ant' second aunts are invited. Ive seen her maybe 5 times my whole life. Her freaking daughter is 17...Im sure sh'll be fine home by herself for a few hours....

Im mad at her for talking about me and not RSVPING at all to my shower


arghhhhhhhh!!
PegaLega Posted:

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17 and she cant stay home alone

You are not rude at all, we only invited my second uncle and his wife....b/c they were our pre-cana leader. And he has 3 brothers! She will get over it-one day when her daughter who cant be home alone gets married she will understand
diva7531 Posted:

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People are nuts, if she doesn't understand then screw her!

ligirlz Posted:

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I wouldn't worry. I think it is kind of strange that a 17 yr old can't stay home alone . You can tell her that space is limited to a certain amount and as the other poster says she will understand when her daughter gets married. I think it is petty and she should get over it.
firesign75 Posted:

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People get brutal I have my FSIL calling her whole family (luckily not that big) making sure they got an invitation then calls us to let us know who we missed. I had my FMIL look at the list and never said anything about these people. It's amazing family comes out of the woodwork when it comes to a wedding. Also the same SIL is mad because her 18 yr old son is invited but the 14 yr old is not, cut off is 16 yrs old.

Guest list thee worst
DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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people just dont understand that there has to be a cut off somewhere. and especially you are not even close with her. omg...
Shorty McBride Posted:

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Stand your ground
stonepondbabe Posted:

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Thats ridiculous! If she can't come because of her grown daughter, she can at least ask you about it instead of talking behind your back. Who did she mention it too? Be sure people that are close to you can pass the word that space is an issue and shut her up!

twinkle164 Posted:

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I would say, 'OK. Sorry you wont be able to make the wedding' and leave it at that.

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