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Wedding Anxiety

hyphenbride Posted:

Wedding Anxiety

I keep on getting really nervous that my hair and makeup people won't show for my wedding. What would you do if that happened to you?

I would be in such trouble. I can't do makeup beyond eyeshadow, mascara, and blush. I don't OWN makeup beyond that! Hair would be even worse...
TiffJoey Posted:

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don't even think about it.....they will show up!

hyphenbride Posted:

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BUT WHAT IF THEY DON'T?!?!

My wedding is so far away...but I think of this at least once a week.
hyphenbride Posted:

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And, yes, I know I'm a little crazy.
Jenn04 Posted:

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No you arent crazy! I have had countless nightmares that the priest didnt show up, the flowers are all wrong, my bouquet has plastic flowers, photographer late, etc, etc, the list goes on! I have them like once a week!!!!! ughhhh crazy!

Maria31 Posted:

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It's absolutely normal to think those thoughts!
It will all work out in the end and everyone will show up!
hyphenbride Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

No you arent crazy! I have had countless nightmares that the priest didnt show up, the flowers are all wrong, my bouquet has plastic flowers, photographer late, etc, etc, the list goes on! I have them like once a week!!!!! ughhhh crazy!



Now you've got me worried about the officiant! I have had nightmares that my mom has had to officiate my wedding (she got ordained online through ULC)....that would probably be the worst!
hwolf812 Posted:

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You sound like me! Ive been trying to tell myself not to get too ahead of myself, think ONLY ABOUT TODAY, and everything will work out ok, and some things are just beyond our control!

Jenn04 Posted:

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Posted by hyphenbride


Posted by Jenn04

No you arent crazy! I have had countless nightmares that the priest didnt show up, the flowers are all wrong, my bouquet has plastic flowers, photographer late, etc, etc, the list goes on! I have them like once a week!!!!! ughhhh crazy!



Now you've got me worried about the officiant! I have had nightmares that my mom has had to officiate my wedding (she got ordained online through ULC)....that would probably be the worst!



My dream was that the priest didnt show and when I called him he was out boating and said he'd try and make it in 2 hours! He was like go ahead with the reception and we will do the ceremony afterward! LOL!
hyphenbride Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04


Posted by hyphenbride


Posted by Jenn04

No you arent crazy! I have had countless nightmares that the priest didnt show up, the flowers are all wrong, my bouquet has plastic flowers, photographer late, etc, etc, the list goes on! I have them like once a week!!!!! ughhhh crazy!



Now you've got me worried about the officiant! I have had nightmares that my mom has had to officiate my wedding (she got ordained online through ULC)....that would probably be the worst!



My dream was that the priest didnt show and when I called him he was out boating and said he'd try and make it in 2 hours! He was like go ahead with the reception and we will do the ceremony afterward! LOL!



That is hysterical. It would be awful, but damn...that's funny!
JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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lol...my one fear is that my DJ won't show up for some reason. i don't know why, i love my DJ and i know he'll be there and will be great...i guess i just keep thinking that if there was no music what the hell would we do?!

i guess i'm worried b/c that's the most recently added vendor and b/c dancing is my favorite thing to do...so if i couldn't do it i'd FREAK!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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omg its so funny u say this...ive been fearing this throughout this whole process...i don't know what i would do...i would be miserable though

jeanne08 Posted:

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Posted by hyphenbride

And, yes, I know I'm a little crazy.



You're not crazy.

Just call them once in a while to confirm details. Don't be too pushy though. Don't call too often. But also don't ask the same question every time.
irishgrl1017 Posted:

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They will!!!!!!!!!!!

LoriBeth2728 Posted:

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Just be glad you have some booked! LOL
snwb08 Posted:

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if they didnt show up i'd go to a makeup counter and get it done that morning - free makeover style.

my hair i would just wing; makeup is the harder one for me.
LT Posted:

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I have the same nightmares!! I keep having dreams that my hair and make up people don't show up and I am stuck doing it myself!! This is actually a reaccuring dream!

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