OMG! I just booked last night and with all the excitement I did not realize that it is my friends birthday. She will be in my BP.
What do you think about this situation? I can't believe it did not cross my mind. Is there anything wrong with it?
BrideChrissy
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I wouldn't mind. Its just a birthday. Hey, she could never forget your wedding anniversary and you could never forget her birthday.
eelharas4700
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If it were my bday I would think it was a great way to spend it!! If you feel really bad or want to do something, you could always have your dj wish her a happy birthday....but I wouldn't worry about it. jmo
Klarabelle
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We got married on my brother's birthday and had a cake for him and everyone sang Happy Birthday! He loved the idea and said it was the best birthday ever!
curiousgeorge
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Wow, thats funny...I have a friend who is a bm and her birthday is on the same day as my wedding too!!! I was little concerned at first but then she said ' I couldnt think of a better way to spend my birthday.' I dont see a big deal. Although I am thinking of lighting a birthday candle for her or dedicating a birthday song to her and having th dj announce it!!!
snowcutie82
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my friend is getting married the day after my bday and on fh's and my anniversary!
from my point of view...its fine its not really my place to be mad...cuz im not paying for her wedding...i just need to figure out if im going to plan something for my bday the day after her wedding and if all our friends are going to be up for another night out
and as far as our anni...itll change when we get married so i guess its okay
Mrs.D08
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No, if you want u can acknowledge her at the reception with a Happy Birthday, or a special song.
luvabul
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i totally agree!
butapecan3
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My cousin got married on our Grandma's b-day, they got her a cake and sang happy b-day and the bride didn't toss her bok she gave to to our grandmother
Elise&Matt
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I think u can do the bday cake thingy and that would be real nice....my wedding is the day before my godmotheres' bday so I might do something like that for her.
alymikewedding08
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personally I wouldn't mind.. but I guess ask her.. see how she feels.. especially since she is a big part of your day
Mooshyboo
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I dont think it is a big deal ~ if you want you can sing happy birthday to her...(@ the wedding) We booked out wedding and did not realize we booked on the same wedding date as our best man (his wife is a bM) so we will share the same wedding date!