So I think I found my dress and all my BM's are all set that it is the perfect one for me, but my mom isn't giving me that feedback and she's making me hesitant. She told me she loves the dress and it looks great on me but she isn't jumping up and down because I know she doesn't want to sway my opinion. I know after I pick it out she's going to get all excited and tell me how much she loves it but I want to hear that now and her not being all excited for me is making me constantly rethink if this is the one I should get. She did this with the hall too but I had FH to affirm my decision, I'm all alone on this one and I just don' know what to do. I really think it's 'the one' but I really wish she was saying that too. What do you ladies think? I need some advice. I have pics I could post but I cant do that until I get home.
dazies1011
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How did you REALLY feel when you tried the dress on? From my experince I thought I found the one the first time I went and went back to try it on after going to 2 other stores. I put it on and I didnt care for it. What I have done is if it is really the dress I LOVE I went looking cause there were other ones I wanted to try on and tried the dress I LOVED back on and if I didnt feel anything it was off the list. There is only one dress that I have tried on twice and still in love with it. My mom isnt 100% on it but, she likes it on me. I havent cried but, there are a few more I want to try. It is hard for me to make a decision so I way things out. I would say try on other things because you dont sound sure, then go back and try the dress you like and go from there. Sorry that was long.
longislandlibrarian
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if it's THE ONE!!!!! theni t's the ONE no matter what mom says! I haven't gone shopping yet.. but I have gone shopping with my other friends who were brides.. soo many times---the best advice I gave my friend who found the ONE on the first day.. was to go to other bridal stores.. try on some more.. and then go back to the ONE.. and see how you FEEL ABOUT IT the 2nd time!!!
JKFris09
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I guess I'm not 100% I keep feeling like I need to try on more, even though I keep comparing everything to this dress. It has everything I want I just keep having this impulse to try on more. I didn't expect this to be so difficult I thought I would just fall in love with something and know, I didn't think I would feel so dependent on other's opinions that's so not like me. I just feel a lot of pressure with this decision and I hate that I feel like I have to do it on my own
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Hey girlie.
My mom is doing the same thing. The dress I bought is 'the one' to me. But she doesnt like it. I went with how i felt! I even cried!!
Do what I did. Try on a bunch more, just to do it. And if that one is still in your mind. GET IT. ITS YOUR WEDDINg!
LegoBride
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I feel like you are almost questioning that its the one - go try it on again and see how you feel. If you truly love it then it shouldn't matter what anyone thinks - its your wedding
little34
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It is your dress so as long as you are in love then go for it! Your mom will like anything you choose!
Nelle5757
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You need to go with how you feel regardless of what your mom thinks since she will love it in the end. If your are not 100% sold, then try on more dresses. The dress will always be there.
