Ladies, I need your help. My fiancé and I have a large group of HS friends. We all socialize together. My fiancé and I concerned because if we invite them with dates it becomes too many people. What do you think about inviting people, not in serious relationships, without a date? Is it tacky? Thanks girls.
my friend did that for her wedding....we were all in our early 20's at the time so none of us were really in serious relationships...we actually had a blast because we all knew each other and we just danced with our guy friends for the slow songs! We also understood it costs $$$$ to have a guest come...
that's what we're doing...anyone who isn't in a serious relationship (6 months or more) isn't invited with a guest...so personally i don't think its tacky...especially when you're on a budget...
I don't think it's tacky either, but also be prepared to possibly catch some flack for it. The brides of last two weddings I went to only invited guests if they were in a serious relationship. The second wedding only invited engaged couples. Of course the girls invited without dates b*tched about it, but you have to do what you have to do. It's ridiculous to pay all that extra money or worry about space because some selfish people might get offended. I think it's a great idea to invite OOT people with guests. I missed a friends wedding because FH wasn't invited, and I didn't know anyone else and couldn't afford to do a weekend in Vegas essentially by myself.
Definitely not tacky to invite people who arent ina serious relationship without a guest. If its someone who isnt going to know anyone then its a differenta story, but if they are all going to know people then it really shouldnt be a problem
Posted by gonzo23456
Ladies, I need your help. My fiancé and I have a large group of HS friends. We all socialize together. My fiancé and I concerned because if we invite them with dates it becomes too many people. What do you think about inviting people, not in serious relationships, without a date? Is it tacky? Thanks girls.
Posted by kismet8601
Definitely not tacky to invite people who arent ina serious relationship without a guest. If its someone who isnt going to know anyone then its a differenta story, but if they are all going to know people then it really shouldnt be a problem
I did that for my first wedding many years ago. It worked out great bc everyone knew each other, we were young so we just partied. I would love to do that now but can't bc i'm older and everyone is married or in serious relationships. So the 2 people that are single we invited with guests.
