OMG i cant even! I am such a constant worrier now. And I stress about EVERYTHING . the latest being, maybe if we switched the wedding to Jan '10, we could save a lot of money. I dont want to, but money is such a source of stress for me right now! (and to be honest, I think we will be fine in terms of paying for the date we already ahve booked) but I just cant help but wonder what the price difference would be, I mean essentially its only a 2 month difference from the date we're at now. Okay now I am rambling......sorry this turned into such a long post. Thanks for reading if you managed to keep going.
Just frustrated.
christophersgirl
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awww try hard not to worry so much, it's not good for your skin
i think we all become worry wart versions of ourselves during wedding planning, it might be a natural errm evolution? i don't know...but point is, you're not alone in this, i'm here with ya in your corner!! and i'm sure many are too...november is wonderful time to get married (i'm biased i know, so sue me) and you might catch an indian summer and still be able to do an outdoor wedding! (if thats ever something you wanted that is..)
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Just know your not alone or crazy!!! I just said to FH the other day maybe we should push the wedding to 2010 for finacial reasons and he thought I was crazy!! He also said all it would do was extend the time I have to stress!! He is right!!! I believe everything works out in the end so just enjoy and TRY not to stress too much and when you do just come on here and we will be there for you!!!
soon2bMrs P
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Thanks Girls! Glad to know that I'm not the only one
geegee827
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I totally think that the longer the engagement and the planning process, the more you worry about it. January is a cheaper month to get married in, but you're only going to be pushing it back 2 months - I don't think savings wise it will make all that much of a difference.
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Definately not the only one! I think about it too! It's scary to pay sooooo much money and sign these contracts that indebts you to these companies...and it really is a lot of money. BTW.... your wedding is the day after mine!!!!! 2 months later you might end up with problems from snow and also remember people will be holidayed out! Stick to your original date if you can pull it off... if not then move it to Jan or Feb bc is def is cheaper... I have a friend gettting married around that time. But the beginning of November will be so nice and it shouldn't be tooo freezing out. My FH works 2 full time jobs, 1 to live off of and 1 for the wedding. I work 1 fulltime job. It's a crazy economic time to be getting married! But we can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's what I tell myself anyway!
StefPalma
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i worry ALL the time it is making me insane!
soon2bMrs P
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seriously I cant wait til this stage of the game is over. I would love to have just ONE convo with FH that doesnt revolve around money, bills, saving X amount etc etc. I can not wait!! The financial part has consumed us lol
