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Wedding Invite/Shower Invite Question

Chanwich Posted:

Wedding Invite/Shower Invite Question

How have you girls gone about inviting ladies to your shower when you have an A and B list for the wedding? Did you just invite all the women from both lists to the shower? If so, what if the people on the B list end up not being invited to the wedding? Or did you just invite the people on the A list and hope the B lister's got over not being at the shower if they did end up going to the wedding?
Any opinions and past experiences would be most helpful. TIA!!
jeanyus27 Posted:

Re: Wedding Invite/Shower Invite Question

I believe that anyone who is invited to the shower should be invited to the wedding. I didn't invite every woman to the shower however. If its a girlfriend of a friend and you really don't know her, i wouldn't invite her to the shower. But yeah, just as long as you invite everyone to the wedding that was at the shower.

sophisticat13 Posted:

Re: Wedding Invite/Shower Invite Question

That's a good question. I would only invite the A list to the shower. A bridal shower is really supposed to be your closest friends and relatives. The guests on the B list are most likely on the B list for a reason-because the bride isn't as close to them.
HTH
Wifeynella Posted:

Re: Wedding Invite/Shower Invite Question


Posted by sophisticat13

That's a good question. I would only invite the A list to the shower. A bridal shower is really supposed to be your closest friends and relatives. The guests on the B list are most likely on the B list for a reason-because the bride isn't as close to them.
HTH




i agree 1000%
Chanwich Posted:

Re: Wedding Invite/Shower Invite Question

We are just trying to figure out timing for my sisters shower since we won't know who we can and can't invite from the B list until her shower is over. Some of the people on the B list our family is close with, but because of room constraints they are on the B list.

Thanks for the help!

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