Wedding Night Accommodations for Bridal Party

12-3Princess Posted: Jan 16, 2005 12:34 PM

Wedding Night Accommodations for Bridal Party

Is it customary for the bride & groom to pay for their attendants' hotel accomodations on the wedding night? Or do they pay for themselves?

tia!

FoxHollowbride0617 Posted: Jan 16, 2005 02:06 PM

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I have never heard of that. FH and I are only paying for our hotel room.

Sunshine128 Posted: Jan 16, 2005 03:23 PM

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hmmm, I'm wondering the same thing... anyone else have an opinion on this??

Marisa M Posted: Jan 16, 2005 04:48 PM

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I have always paid for myself. - I've never heard of the Bride and Groom paying.......
I guess it's a nice gesture if you have the extra $$$.....but NOT at all expected !

jaclyncalderon Posted: Jan 16, 2005 05:14 PM

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I hope not because that is definitly not in my budget!!

salsbride06 Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:13 PM

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we are not.......

JBKempf Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:14 PM

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We aren't paying for the hotel room. But we got very discounted rooms since my FH works for a hotel mgmt company.

lillian771 Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:32 PM

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Definitely not! FH was best man in a wedding and the wedding was at Cornell University up in Ithaca. Even then the bride and groom didn't pay for our accommodations.

FTRBRIDE Posted: Jan 16, 2005 09:42 PM

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katieshope Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:42 PM

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I hope not, because we would not be able to afford it.

lcherian Posted: Jan 16, 2005 10:44 PM

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According to Emily Post's book entitled the 'Wedding Planner' it says that the bride should cover the bridal party's lodging. But honestly, i've never heard of anyone following this.

Sunshine128 Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:46 AM

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I have always paid for my own room if I decided to stay over.

mushsgrl Posted: Jan 17, 2005 04:06 PM

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I just blocked the rooms I am not paying for them. I could see paying for them if you didnt get them anyother gift, but they cant expect you too.

SomethingBlu Posted: Jan 17, 2005 05:09 PM

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I would hope that they pay for themselves. This is a big expense!

nferrandi Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:28 PM

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Since I wanted to spnd the night before the wedding at the hotel, since I didn't want to worry about driving in the morning, so I paid for 2 joining rooms for me and my BM. They were on their own for the night of the wedding.

litlone555 Posted: Jan 17, 2005 11:37 PM

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I dont think its our responsibility but I don't know what to do about out of town friends in the bridal party. They have to stay at a hotel so do we find them a hotel or is it up to them? I feel bad they are already spending so much money on our wedding but by then we really won't have the money either.