Would it bother you if someone attending your wedding, who wasn't an out-of-state guest and could easily drive home after the wedding, spent the night at your wedding night hotel? Is it rude?
For me it would depend on who the friend was. If it was one of my very good friends then no, probably not.
sunshine1813
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I would hope that everyone stayed in the hotel so that we can drink in bar after the wedding and/or have breakfast togther in the morning.
jerrys girl
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we have done that for weddings in my family. we would stay at the same hotel if the wedding was in suffolk and we are from nassau. it is nice. the following morning we all have breakfast together.
kris15198
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It wouldn't bother me...my door would be locked
D's Girl
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Rude? Not at all
I personally want everyone to stay over and party all night with us. I would rather not people worry about driving home tired or with a few cocktails in them.
I booked as many rooms as I could for this reason also
GabrielleandJohn
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I totally agree. I booked as many rooms as I could. All of my sisters, friends and family from the area are staying. I dont want anyone driving and a party ends when the people leave.
We actually booked a confernece room at our hotel from 1am-3am so all the over nighters have somewhere to keep it going!
neener1211
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Not at all!! i want everone to be safe after drinking, so it's their dime...I don't care where they stay overnight.
soon2bmrsdunn
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I don't think it is. We are staying in the same hotel where we booked rooms for our guests. It gives us a chance to thank them again before everyone goes home in the morning. We are even hosting a morning after breakfast!
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Posted by D's Girl
Rude? Not at all
I personally want everyone to stay over and party all night with us. I would rather not people worry about driving home tired or with a few cocktails in them.
I booked as many rooms as I could for this reason also
I totally agree. Both of my parents and my uncle are planning on staying at the hotel. I'd rather everyone take advantage of the very expensive shuttle that I'm running to the hotel.
PegaLega
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I agree, I would prefer people to stay at the hotel and NOT worry about getting home then not enoy the party b/c they have to drive!
MattandTricia07
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I would hope that the person would stay at the hotel
for Matt's cousin's wedding she wanted everyone there so we stayed and it was great!
brittny817
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We don't have many OOT guests but I wouldn't mind if the few we have or anyone that wanted stayed at the same hotel as us.
LoveBug1124
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I also want people staying at the hotel, I don't want to worry about driving. As long as they don't knock of my door i'm happy!!
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Posted by sunshine1813
I would hope that everyone stayed in the hotel so that we can drink in bar after the wedding and/or have breakfast togther in the morning.
Yeah I agree... why would you care? why would it be rude?
BrideChrissy
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No it wouldn't bother me. I hope alot of people stay so we can either go out to the hotel bar after and have a brunch in the morning.
cherilicious16
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Posted by sunshine1813
I would hope that everyone stayed in the hotel so that we can drink in bar after the wedding and/or have breakfast togther in the morning.
yup!!!
jessandjimiswedding
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i would want ppl to stay in the hotel. but i wouldn't want anyone staying in a room nicer than mine!
donegal419
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that;s how I feel!!! the more the merrier!!! but once we go up to our suite, i would like people to leave us alone!
donegal419
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Sorry my above post didn't 'quote'
i also hope people attend our after party at the hotel bar and feel free to enjoy themselves.... doesn't bother me that they will be at the same hotel.
