I've had a few silly dreams before, but last night I had a really bad nightmare.
It was the morning of my wedding & we went over to the RH for some reason. The place was disgusting! The wall paper was peeling, there were leaky pipes and the flooring had ben replaced with cafeteria style tiles. The place looked like a sewer! My mom promised me they just had to clean up & we moved on to get ready. Then we got home to discover I had nobody to do my hair, my veil had never been picked up, and my dress wasn't altered. We rushed to a bridal shop to get my dress altered & pick up a veil. They altered my dress crooked & sewed blue lace along the bottom. Then my mom took the veil & stuck it in my unbrushed, unstyled hair & said I looked 'good enough'.
Then I remembered that we had no centerpieces so my mom & BM ran to the store to pick some up while I headed to the church. When I got to the church, FH was standing outside in his tux pants & a t-shirt. I was hysterical because he wasn't dressed properly & he saw me before the ceremony.
My mom says that these dreams will only get worse as the wedding gets closer Am I totally loosing my mind?
CrisiDrue
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No, I just had one the other night, and it was weird I had a nightmare about CP. I'm doing all calla lillies as CP, and we get to the RH and the CP are for a fall wedding! But that wasn't the horrible part (I love fall colors, but I'm getting married in summer) - the HORRIBLE part was they were like harvest centerpieces with the different colored corn in them!!! Like something you pick up at the supermarket before Thanksgiving!!!
drpepper318
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No you're not losing your mind! I think it's totally normal since we think about our weddings a lot as they get closer. I've had a few strange wedding dreams.. one felt very real.. I woke up and it was the morning of the wedding, and I realized I still had so much planning left to do!! I hadn't booked anyone to do my hair or makeup, no alterations done, no final meetings with vendors, nothing... like completely unprepared, as though I were to wake up tomorrow and it were my wedding day or something... so I was trying to figure out what to do!!! It was really weird. I think it's because it's on my mind that I haven't been doing as much planning as I should be doing with only 2 months left to the wedding. So don't worry you're not the only one!!!!
AeroJenn
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haha...welcome to my world. I've been having wedding nightmares for the past year and a half. Luckily, as its been getting closer and closer to the wedding, I havent had as many. with only 24 days left I actually havent had one in about a month.
dont worry about them -- its totally normal to have these nightmares.
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Posted by drpepper318
No you're not losing your mind! I think it's totally normal since we think about our weddings a lot as they get closer. I've had a few strange wedding dreams.. one felt very real.. I woke up and it was the morning of the wedding, and I realized I still had so much planning left to do!! I hadn't booked anyone to do my hair or makeup, no alterations done, no final meetings with vendors, nothing... like completely unprepared, as though I were to wake up tomorrow and it were my wedding day or something... so I was trying to figure out what to do!!! It was really weird. I think it's because it's on my mind that I haven't been doing as much planning as I should be doing with only 2 months left to the wedding. So don't worry you're not the only one!!!!
lol, I had almost the same dream a couple months ago! I dreamed that it was my wedding day and I hadn't booked any of my vendors (probably because at that point I actually hadn't). So I ended up missing the whole wedding trying to book vendors last minute! i've been having a lot of crazy dreams about the wedding lately. some funny and some stressful. I think it's normal for that to happen because the wedding is probably on your mind for most of the day!
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Most recently, the dream-hall looked like someone came in and blew a layer of dirt all over hunting lodge (and not one of the nice ones - ones where burly men actually go to drink beer and hunt), there were no decorations, and my MOH showed up wearing some prostitute-red cocktail dress she picked out b/c she didn't like the burgundy floor length everyone else was wearing, and she wouldn't help because she didn't want to get dirty.