wedding party question

so, i have this friend...and i recently decided that i really want her to be in my wedding...

however..fh doesnt want anything BM, and i want our wedding party to be even.. how else can i incorporate her...


OR..

say, she was a bm, and didnt have a partner, how would that work at the reception when everyone dances with their partner??

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Posted by Novbride09

are you getting married in a church? have her do a reading.

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yes, its a catholic church.. i never actually though of that! thank you!

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Posted by Novbride09

no prob! It is a nice way to incorporate her and make her feel special.

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yea, because, ive known her for a while but we were never really close...lately, we have become veryy close.. and shes a great friend.. and shes super excited for my wedding too!

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Posted by Nichole2010

so, i have this friend...and i recently decided that i really want her to be in my wedding...

however..fh doesnt want anything BM, and i want our wedding party to be even.. how else can i incorporate her...


OR..

say, she was a bm, and didnt have a partner, how would that work at the reception when everyone dances with their partner??

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If you did want her in the BP, I have been to weddings where the bridal party will just dance with their dates or someone else at the wedding if they are not evenly matched. That is what we plan on doing.

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Posted by emc282rjm

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Posted by Nichole2010

so, i have this friend...and i recently decided that i really want her to be in my wedding...

however..fh doesnt want anything BM, and i want our wedding party to be even.. how else can i incorporate her...


OR..

say, she was a bm, and didnt have a partner, how would that work at the reception when everyone dances with their partner??

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If you did want her in the BP, I have been to weddings where the bridal party will just dance with their dates or someone else at the wedding if they are not evenly matched. That is what we plan on doing.

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Yeah, that's what we're doing too.

I have never seen the bridal party have a special dance?
I had an uneven bridal party - there was actually one extra groomsman. one girl walked down with 2 guys. It was fine. But the reading sounds like a nice idea too.

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Posted by MsPotterhead

I have never seen the bridal party have a special dance?
I had an uneven bridal party - there was actually one extra groomsman. one girl walked down with 2 guys. It was fine. But the reading sounds like a nice idea too.

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me and another girl on the 2010 boards were just talking about this...im from PA & every wedding ive been to, the wedding party is introduced & then dance with their partner..but she never heard of it either.. i told her, maybe its just a pa thing? lol

I am having an uneven # and I am pairing my one friend who will be married at the time of mine with a GM and other BM who isn't, this way when they dance her husband will come out and dance with her.

I am going to ask her to do it, bc I know obviously she will have a date, this way no one is left out

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Posted by Nichole2010

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Posted by MsPotterhead

I have never seen the bridal party have a special dance?
I had an uneven bridal party - there was actually one extra groomsman. one girl walked down with 2 guys. It was fine. But the reading sounds like a nice idea too.

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me and another girl on the 2010 boards were just talking about this...im from PA & every wedding ive been to, the wedding party is introduced & then dance with their partner..but she never heard of it either.. i told her, maybe its just a pa thing? lol

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I'm the other girl

I swear, this is still new to me, even though I guess it's more common than I thought here in NY