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wedding party sizes

jesca Posted:

wedding party sizes

how many are you planning on having in your wedding party? FH and I were talking over dinner and we're contemplating just having two 'bests' (two MOHs two BM). i asked my mom for her opinion, her response is we can do whatever we want. its just tough with friends and family because we know people will be hurt if we dont include them, but neither of us want a huge wedding party. opinions would be greatly appreciated.

Christine N Ralph Posted:

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We are having 12 people in our bridal party. We both have brothers, and neither of us have sisters. I have having 4 girls and he is having 8 guys. I didnt want him to have all of those guys but he says that it means a lot to him...I just think that its going to mean more of an expense to us...I would keep it small your better off in my opinion!

MrsS4 Posted:

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Posted by jesca

how many are you planning on having in your wedding party? FH and I were talking over dinner and we're contemplating just having two 'bests' (two MOHs two BM). i asked my mom for her opinion, her response is we can do whatever we want. its just tough with friends and family because we know people will be hurt if we dont include them, but neither of us want a huge wedding party. opinions would be greatly appreciated.



some done even have a MOH or BM so I would just do whatever you feel will make your day perfect. People in my opinion will not be insulted because it is all the bride and grooms decision!

hth
eternitybride Posted:

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we will wind up with 8-12, depending on Flower Girls and Ring Bearer.

I have 4 girls, FH has 4 guys, if my cousins from Fl come up I could wind up with 3 flower girls and a ring bearer. Otherwise it will wind up the 4 and 4


that may be to many, considering our guest list is currently at 125 hoping for around 100-110.
SparklingBride10 Posted:

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Christine N Ralph Posted:

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Maybe about 13 or 14 people, it depends.


I did not even count out flower girl, junior usher and ring bearer...then that brings us up to 15!!! You dont mind having so many people in the bp?? I am getting dizzy just thinking about all of the extra $$$ we will have to spend!
SparklingBride10 Posted:

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T E R I Posted:

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We are having 7, 4 girls and 3 guys. All are family, we are not including any friends because we did not want any feelings to be hurt. So its my sister, his sister, his sil, and my cousin. His brother, his bil, and my brother. We are not having any flower girls or ring bearers.

Michg82 Posted:

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We are having 14 plus 2 flower girls.

SummerBride10 Posted:

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We're having 12 plus 3 flower girls. We'll have around 200 guests.

Christine N Ralph Posted:

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Posted by SparklingBride10


Posted by Christine N Ralph


Maybe about 13 or 14 people, it depends.


I did not even count out flower girl, junior usher and ring bearer...then that brings us up to 15!!! You dont mind having so many people in the bp?? I am getting dizzy just thinking about all of the extra $$$ we will have to spend!



It doesn't really seem like a lot to me.



It is a lot in my opinion! We have to get bigger limos, more people at the rehersal dinner, and bp gifts...it may not sound like a lot but thats going to cost a lot more money when you add it all up
T E R I Posted:

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Posted by Christine N Ralph


Posted by SparklingBride10


Posted by Christine N Ralph


Maybe about 13 or 14 people, it depends.


I did not even count out flower girl, junior usher and ring bearer...then that brings us up to 15!!! You dont mind having so many people in the bp?? I am getting dizzy just thinking about all of the extra $$$ we will have to spend!



It doesn't really seem like a lot to me.



It is a lot in my opinion! We have to get bigger limos, more people at the rehersal dinner, and bp gifts...it may not sound like a lot but thats going to cost a lot more money when you add it all up




I feel like my BP is small compared to everyone else's
But when I think about the cost of gifts, rehersal dinner, and limos (if we get them) I guess its better off that way
jesca Posted:

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Posted by T E R I


Posted by Christine N Ralph


Posted by SparklingBride10


Posted by Christine N Ralph


Maybe about 13 or 14 people, it depends.


I did not even count out flower girl, junior usher and ring bearer...then that brings us up to 15!!! You dont mind having so many people in the bp?? I am getting dizzy just thinking about all of the extra $$$ we will have to spend!



It doesn't really seem like a lot to me.



It is a lot in my opinion! We have to get bigger limos, more people at the rehersal dinner, and bp gifts...it may not sound like a lot but thats going to cost a lot more money when you add it all up




I feel like my BP is small compared to everyone else's
But when I think about the cost of gifts, rehersal dinner, and limos (if we get them) I guess its better off that way



how do you think i feel? i started this post and as of right now we're having a total of four people
T E R I Posted:

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how do you think i feel? i started this post and as of right now we're having a total of four people


Sorry, that is true. So you have the smallest and then I do. Everyone else has big BP's
MrsS4 Posted:

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Posted by T E R I



how do you think i feel? i started this post and as of right now we're having a total of four people



Sorry, that is true. So you have the smallest and then I do. Everyone else has big BP's


no worries ladies-- I barly have gfs so idk who I will put up with all of the fh's friends-- so dont stress it--
Christine N Ralph Posted:

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Posted by MrsS4


Posted by T E R I



how do you think i feel? i started this post and as of right now we're having a total of four people



Sorry, that is true. So you have the smallest and then I do. Everyone else has big BP's



no worries ladies-- I barly have gfs so idk who I will put up with all of the fh's friends-- so dont stress it--


Well that is the prob that I have. We are doubling the guys. 2 guys to ever 1 girl...I dont love this idea but It will look cute
grkbarbie Posted:

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haha same here, only i dont think we want a bridal party.. i mean we 'should' but it will be soo much easier if it was just us two..

do you have to pick koumbaroi for ur wedding? isnt their purpose to baptize children? soo confusing and retardedddddd
failurebydsign Posted:

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i will be hurt if i am not a besmaid in your wedding

and ill tell all the guests not to come

im joking..as long as i can be a part of the eating part of the wedding..( rehersal dinner..y tastings that i may be in NY for ) and cake tasting

thats all i really care about is food

not you jess

FOOD
MrsS4 Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

haha same here, only i dont think we want a bridal party.. i mean we 'should' but it will be soo much easier if it was just us two..

do you have to pick koumbaroi for ur wedding? isnt their purpose to baptize children? soo confusing and retardedddddd



this is only with greek weddings --- I am greek && the koumbari are separate from the wedding party-
grkbarbie Posted:

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girls suck and are soo difficult to work with!

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