Wedding Planning

JazzyT Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:55 PM

Wedding Planning

Is FH taking an active role in your wedding planning?

Do you want him to? and if so what aspects and decisions of the planning would you like him to be involved?

enjft Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:56 PM

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I voted certain decisions. The ones I dont want to hear about after.

JazzyT Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:57 PM

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I agree with u

tara51799 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:57 PM

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I voted certain decisions. Although I really would like him to be a part of it more. He really not that interested in certain things like photo and flowers and such. He just says whatever!

chellynyc Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:58 PM

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He's very involved...so far. His main concerns about the wedding are the hall (food & drinks) and the music - other than that he won't be picky. He has told me that if I get 'bridezilla' that he will pull the wedding planning from me and all I will be allowed to do is pick the dresses!!! You had to see the face I gave him with a 'are you kidding me?!?!' - he would have no clue what to do!!!

JazzyT Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:00 PM

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No clue

Athee07 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:02 PM

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Every single vendor we booked and visited -he MUST come- I told him this is his wedding and he needs to have a say in it too- but to be honest with you he agrees with everything so we havent encountered any problems so far!

Missladybug15 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:05 PM

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I'd like him to be involved with certain things but not everything. Plus he is pretty easy going about most things. I told him all he has to do is show up on our wedding day!! LOL LOL

chellynyc Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:06 PM

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I agree - it's his wedding to so he better be there!! FH is good - he's excited about it too and he tells everyone that we are planning the 'wedding of the century' - he's nuts!

MrsMichel07 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:09 PM

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No.... he is really not interested.
He is ONLY worried about the money and how much this cost us.

Now when he sees that I am not paying him any mind and doing my own stuff he wants to get involve.

He will be in charge of the HM, Music, tuxes and the limos.

JazzyT Posted: Nov 17, 2005 11:01 PM

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Posted by MrsMichel07

No.... he is really not interested.
He is ONLY worried about the money and how much this cost us.

Now when he sees that I am not paying him any mind and doing my own stuff he wants to get involve.

He will be in charge of the HM, Music, tuxes and the limos.

Funny thats the same tasks I assigned to my FH

kam0813 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 11:12 PM

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i want FH to take an active role in the planning and he's genuinely wants to help and be involved...he's so wonderful...i'm so thankful for my FH!!

giapet99 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 11:15 PM

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My Fh is a pain. He is very anal about things. I guess he's a metrosexual so everything has to match and be perfect. Sometimes it's nice that he wants to be involved and then other times my mother and I have to remind him that ultimately it's my day.

mark'smama Posted: Nov 18, 2005 11:40 AM

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sometimes he seems more into it then I do

Theatrimelz Posted: Nov 18, 2005 11:49 AM

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Of course I want him to take an active role! It is OUR wedding, not MINE!

FDWedding07 Posted: Nov 18, 2005 01:23 PM

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I discuss everything with him. He is involved in what ever I ask him to be. Some things (Like shows) I would rather take my mom of my MOH since he has no patience for sales people. He is ok with this.