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wedding put into better perspective last night

kellybean Posted:

wedding put into better perspective last night

We went to a wake last night for a women who Fh was very close too when he was younger...it was so heart breaking to be at a wake for a 27 year old women...heres where the wedding perspective comes in ....She was buried in her wedding dress....why? because before she passed she told everyone thats what she wanted because it was the best day of her life....I came home and felt like the biggest as* for being so worried about not spending enough money or making it a day to impress....I dunno it just kind of made me realize even more that its not about the money or the flowers etc...its about the love laughter smiles and memories!!

minniesmom Posted:

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YOU GOT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

angl2001 Posted:

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well said sweetie!!!! so sorry for FH loss send him my condolences

DCLM726 Posted:

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my thoughts are with you and your FH.....27 is so young

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LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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my condolences to your FH... and thank you for the reminder.
rdaw Posted:

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that's very sad to hear it's important that we remember what's really important though...you are totally right! thanks for the reminder!
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Wow...that's so sad....I hope you don't mind me asking, but what exactly caused her death?

kellybean Posted:

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Posted by GinaBambina88

Wow...that's so sad....I hope you don't mind me asking, but what exactly caused her death?



she had cancer. It was one of Fh husbands very close childhood friends...I unfortunately didnt really know her ....
bella1028 Posted:

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so sorry for the loss....your words are so true

KarinAmanda Posted:

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too many, too soon ...

my prayers go out to your family and hers!
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by kellybean


Posted by GinaBambina88

Wow...that's so sad....I hope you don't mind me asking, but what exactly caused her death?



she had cancer. It was one of Fh husbands very close childhood friends...I unfortunately didnt really know her ....



that is so horrible...at such a young age
wo0shply Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear that
Mici n KC Posted:

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So sad

You are definitely right. It's not about the material things.
040508Bride Posted:

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well said....my condolences to you and FH

Snowflake08 Posted:

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that is exactly why things like someone picking the same BM dress or color or flower or date or 1st song dont bother me at all

life is so much more important than ANY of those t hings
luna bride x Posted:

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oh my god!

you're right
catsgirl Posted:

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you could not have said that any better.

Cntthinkofone Posted:

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That is so sad It's hard when someone is so young. My condolences to your fh.
shoegal68 Posted:

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that is soo heartbreaking.. so sorry to hear that

unfortunately, when things like this happens, makes you look at life differently..

lately my motto has been 'don't sweat the small stuff'


Kimbalina Posted:

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You got me all teary eyed!

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