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Wedding Reception Debate!

JuneBride2005 Posted:

Wedding Reception Debate!

To all past brides....and those who have attended weddings....we are having a debate with friends of ours as to who toasts the bride and groom first at the wedding reception.

TIA!
Marly Posted:

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I have been to weddings where both BM & MOH have made toasts.
reenielady Posted:

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The BM should do it first

GiJoe07 Posted:

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I would say BM should definitly do it first. I'm still deciding if I would even want MOH to do a toast.

kris01 Posted:

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All the weddings I have been to the BM toasts first then the MOH

citycrab705 Posted:

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i've always seen the best man do the first toast, in fact i can't remember ever seeing a moh do a toast

HelenZ Posted:

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From the weddings I've been to, the BM always goes first, then the MOH (if she does one).

ejm1219 Posted:

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Its usually the BM but honestly, its ur wedding and u can do whatever u want!

ruzi777 Posted:

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I know that I would like both the Best Man and MOH to make toats but the BM I think should go before the MOH!!!!

drpepper318 Posted:

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I'm trying to remember at weddings I've been to.. hmm.. I don't think it matters who goes first.. personal preference I think.. I think I'll have my MOH do it first then the BM.

nycgirl79 Posted:

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At the weddings I've been to it's been BM then MOH.

MattandTricia07 Posted:

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I toasted first at my sister's wedding, we kind of just decided spur of the moment.

Meaghan729 Posted:

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the BM should go first.

im only having the BM toast, unless my MOH's really want to.

i went to a wedding where the BM, MOH, a bridesmaid all made seperate toasts, and someone else sang (with was really nice) but it was too much!
SummerBride06 Posted:

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i didn't have my MOH toast. just BM

angnick Posted:

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Ladies first is usually how it goes. therefore, the maid of honor goes first.

smara Posted:

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My weddign it was opposite.. my sister went first then BM. And in her weddign 3 yrs ago I went first.

jeanla4c Posted:

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In most of the weddings I have been to , the MOH went first!

jeanla4c Posted:

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Posted by MattandTricia07

I toasted first at my sister's wedding, we kind of just decided spur of the moment.



Oops, that is how we planned it with the DJ--sorry if I didn't inform you properly!!!
snydl40 Posted:

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I've seen both-at my mom's the DJ made me do it first. At a lot of weddings though-I've seen the BM do it first. Sorry I am no help at all.
waterspout4 Posted:

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Best man first. Then MOH if you want her to do it.

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