To all past brides....and those who have attended weddings....we are having a debate with friends of ours as to who toasts the bride and groom first at the wedding reception.
TIA!
Marly
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I have been to weddings where both BM & MOH have made toasts.
reenielady
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The BM should do it first
GiJoe07
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I would say BM should definitly do it first. I'm still deciding if I would even want MOH to do a toast.
kris01
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All the weddings I have been to the BM toasts first then the MOH
citycrab705
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i've always seen the best man do the first toast, in fact i can't remember ever seeing a moh do a toast
HelenZ
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From the weddings I've been to, the BM always goes first, then the MOH (if she does one).
ejm1219
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Its usually the BM but honestly, its ur wedding and u can do whatever u want!
ruzi777
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I know that I would like both the Best Man and MOH to make toats but the BM I think should go before the MOH!!!!
drpepper318
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I'm trying to remember at weddings I've been to.. hmm.. I don't think it matters who goes first.. personal preference I think.. I think I'll have my MOH do it first then the BM.
nycgirl79
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At the weddings I've been to it's been BM then MOH.
MattandTricia07
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I toasted first at my sister's wedding, we kind of just decided spur of the moment.
Meaghan729
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the BM should go first.
im only having the BM toast, unless my MOH's really want to.
i went to a wedding where the BM, MOH, a bridesmaid all made seperate toasts, and someone else sang (with was really nice) but it was too much!
SummerBride06
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i didn't have my MOH toast. just BM
angnick
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Ladies first is usually how it goes. therefore, the maid of honor goes first.
smara
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My weddign it was opposite.. my sister went first then BM. And in her weddign 3 yrs ago I went first.
jeanla4c
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In most of the weddings I have been to , the MOH went first!
jeanla4c
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Posted by MattandTricia07
I toasted first at my sister's wedding, we kind of just decided spur of the moment.
Oops, that is how we planned it with the DJ--sorry if I didn't inform you properly!!!
snydl40
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I've seen both-at my mom's the DJ made me do it first. At a lot of weddings though-I've seen the BM do it first. Sorry I am no help at all.
waterspout4
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Best man first. Then MOH if you want her to do it.