Have any of you found the stress and pressure of the wedding have you and FH ready to kill each other?
We're supposed to be excited- instead we keep bickering! GRRR!
Tomorrow is the rehearsal dinner and I just feel deflated and tired...
Words of wisdom please...
LadyDuda81509
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yeah we have our days that we are ready to kill each other...but then it gets better!
hang in there!!! wedding planning is very stressful! but just remember its all cuz you love each other!!
LadyDuda81509
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and its almost here!!! all the stress and fighting will pay off when you walk down that aisle!!
lilmartha59
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omg i cant take it anymore...yesterday was such a good day we got a lot done and today we're barely talking to one another...i cant wait for this to be over
MrsZtoBe
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Posted by lilmartha59
omg i cant take it anymore...yesterday was such a good day we got a lot done and today we're barely talking to one another...i cant wait for this to be over
THANK YOU! I feel less crazy...
glenisland09
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this wedding has caused FH and I to have two massive fights - I mean really horrible... BUT FH and I are closer than after them. You are totally not crazy and this will all pass soon!!
MrsDrinkh20
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Totally normal...at the rehearsal dinner the tension will break and you will realize just how happy and excited you are!!! Good luck with everything..you are going to be STUNNING!
HotAir
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everything will be fine! You are so close!!!
dolphinlover83
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Thanks for posting this!! My FH and I have been bickering constantly as well (we still have over 2 months to go!) I sometimes start to feel like, what am I doing all this work for if all we do is fight? But now I see that many of the brides go through it with their FHs, so I'm definitely not so worried!!
Really, thank you for relaxing me a bit with this post!
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Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Totally normal...at the rehearsal dinner the tension will break and you will realize just how happy and excited you are!!! Good luck with everything..you are going to be STUNNING!
ITA! Just think positive and think of all of the reasons you love him and think about how happy you will be once you are married. Try your hardest to not let the stress get to you....take a walk or a drive to clear your head.
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Posted by nraboni
Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Totally normal...at the rehearsal dinner the tension will break and you will realize just how happy and excited you are!!! Good luck with everything..you are going to be STUNNING!
ITA! Just think positive and think of all of the reasons you love him and think about how happy you will be once you are married. Try your hardest to not let the stress get to you....take a walk or a drive to clear your head.
or you could do what i did last night......made myself a nice kettle one, soda and lime before dinner!!! i hardly ever drink!! especially hard liquor! so you can tell what kind of day i had yesterday!!
Dr Meg
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I've been feeling like this lately too. I yelled at FH the other night for something so stupid. I just have to realize what the wedding day is all about and not let the stress of it all get to me.
Nitania13
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LOL I think that happens to everyone!
gina409
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words of wisdom----just keep telling him and ur self..we did this for a reason
and remind him of the honeymoon after
MrsZtoBe
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Thanks girls you are the best!
coldasice217
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I have no words of wisdom, but you're not alone! I think we all feel this way. I almost throttled the little monkey the other day because yet AGAIN he said he was going to play hockey this weekend and it's a day ending in Y so of course there's another family party, so we can't get tuxedos, rings, visit TA, look for an appartment, etc. You know...things that WE MUST DO. We're ready to kill each other, but I know it's normal, so I'm really trying to not let it bother me tooooo much.
vicky1125
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it's normal, we were constantly at it before the wedding. but a week before the wedding things completey turned around cause there was nothing left to do but get married since everything was already done.
it'll get better.
las1
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I totally understand. We have been fighting since this wedding planning has started He wanted a wedding of 10 people on a beach now we are having a wedding of 200.
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Posted by lilmartha59
omg i cant take it anymore...yesterday was such a good day we got a lot done and today we're barely talking to one another...i cant wait for this to be over
I couldn't have said it better myself!!!
We both keep reassuring each other that this is normal b/c we know we are not this crazy under normal circumstances
jenturch
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My mantra: It's about the marriage not the wedding. Just gotta remind myself the wedding is one day and the marriage is a lifetime. We work very hard to not fight about the wedding stuff but it is not easy.
