Wedding withdrawal

wo0shply Posted: Oct 21, 2008 09:15 AM

Wedding withdrawal

Does anyone have wedding withdrawal? I wanted my wedding to be done and over with but now I wish I had more planning...

Browneyesncute Posted: Oct 21, 2008 09:15 AM

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yes and no I don't miss the stress of it, but last night i did'nt know what to do with myself lol

wo0shply Posted: Oct 21, 2008 09:17 AM

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haha yes I dont miss the stress but maybe if I can help plan someone's wedding it wouldnt be as stressful LOL

RadiantBride Posted: Oct 21, 2008 09:18 AM

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The first couple of weeks I went through withdrawal, now I am back to normal.

shcole08 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 09:48 AM

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Oh, I get sad for like a second but, then I am like so over it. It was a great feeling I went to Michaels this weekend and didn;t have to look at anything for the wedding it was great!

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:00 AM

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Posted by wo0shply

haha yes I dont miss the stress but maybe if I can help plan someone's wedding it wouldnt be as stressful LOL

I have thought about this, and I would think it might be MORE stressful because it's not yours -- you are doing it for someone else and thus you are to blame if things go wrong, you know? For your own - it's just YOU, you know? I mean some people are harder on themselves but I know that when there are other stakes involved, other people depending on things going right, like WORK where I do a lot of planning and organizing ... I am more stressed out because it's not only ME I'd let down, it's someone else.

AllyDrew1108 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:10 AM

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Everyone I know is bugging me about this - they say, 'what are you going to do AFTER the wedding, it has been your obsession for over a year' ... eek! i felt depressed AFTER my shower and bachelorette party. The only good thing is I have Thanksgiving and Xmas to look forward to and maybe a trip to Florida around end of December... But yeah, I'm going to feel it big time!

jillyb97 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:20 AM

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I have moments when i miss the planning of it all...but 2 of the guys I work with recently got engaged, so I just send them info to pass on to their fiances

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:22 AM

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Posted by AllyDrew1108

Everyone I know is bugging me about this - they say, 'what are you going to do AFTER the wedding, it has been your obsession for over a year' ... eek! i felt depressed AFTER my shower and bachelorette party. The only good thing is I have Thanksgiving and Xmas to look forward to and maybe a trip to Florida around end of December... But yeah, I'm going to feel it big time!

exactly! we have our honeymoon nov 2-11, then thanksgiving and christmas ... these things should keep me busy and keep the after wedding blues away ...

jessnstu08 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:24 AM

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I don't miss the planning , but I wish I could have my reception and honeymoon over again .

I am enjoying watching other brides to be get married and looking at their pictures here on LIW

I am enjoying the newlywed part of the wedding being over. I don't miss the stress , or the bs that came with a lot of people and I think by the new year I will have all wedding related stuff out of my system

Toucan311 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:25 AM

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I am SO glad its over.

lizzie217 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:30 AM

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Wanna do my last minute things and deal with all the agravation that comes with it? lol jkjk

queenschic Posted: Oct 21, 2008 10:38 AM

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Sorry, im still in 'OMG I CANT WANT FOR THIS HORRID THING TO BE OVER !!!!!!!!!' mode

KiTTeN0819 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 11:05 AM

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I think im going to feel it big time. Ive been planning obsessed for 2 years now. My only saving grace is that one of my friends and my sister are getting married after me. And also my sisters baby is due in March so i will be planning her baby shower after the holiday madness.

Kricket212 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 11:27 AM

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Posted by queenschic

Sorry, im still in 'OMG I CANT WANT FOR THIS HORRID THING TO BE OVER !!!!!!!!!' mode

I think I am too......My family is aggravating me.

fujamaga Posted: Oct 21, 2008 12:03 PM

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hahah I'm SOOO glad its over!! My only addiction is to this site!!

bjtheroux Posted: Oct 21, 2008 01:09 PM

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It's my 2nd day back to work after my honeymoon and I am struggling. I have no idea what to do in my down time! I am going to have to come up with some sort of hobby to do to keep myself busy.

bigrd37 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 01:11 PM

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i was thinking about this the other day. i haven't had it yet, but i'm sure i will once i'm back to work and not spending every free moment doing something wedding related. i know a few people engaged now and would love to help them out, so i might get a dose of wedding planning through them!

KK Holiday Posted: Oct 21, 2008 01:11 PM

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actually i dont miss it at ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm so glad to not have DIY crafts to do, meetings to set up, vendors to talk with.

i loved my day and I never wanna look back!

soon2BMrsin08 Posted: Oct 21, 2008 01:25 PM

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OMG I am like so upset it is all over. I cried my wedding night I was like wait its over omg! I cant wait for my pics and video. It went by sooo freakin fast!! Ive actually cried several times