Are your fathers being invited to your FH's bachelor party?
My FH's groomsman were planning a weekend in Miami for FH's bachelor party and they weren't planning on inviting my dad. Apparently my mom thinks my dad should be invited...
Thoughts???
Belongs2DanBuckley
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idk...I think they might but it'll be a little weird for my dad to get a lap dance along side his FSIL who's staring as some didrty wh0re's filthy rack
Espo22
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would your dad want to go and how would your FH feel? My concern to be honest, is that some of fh's friends do some things that my dad and FFIL would not be comfortable around. I dont know how much of it would be around considering a large amount going don't do anything but there are a few who do and it will be noticeable i think, thats my concern
missliss
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Posted by Espo22
would your dad want to go and how would your FH feel? My concern to be honest, is that some of fh's friends do some things that my dad and FFIL would not be comfortable around. I dont know how much of it would be around considering a large amount going don't do anything but there are a few who do and it will be noticeable i think, thats my concern
Same situation, that is why the my dad going to FH's bparty was not even an option...ever.
MD835
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i don't think your FH would want that .... it's his party after all ...
Last year FH and his friends threw a bachelor party for their friend and the bride's brother (whom they met first time that night) came -- the groom DID NOT have a good time bec he was worried about what his brother-in-law would say to his future wife ... FH and his friends were sooooooooooo pissed the whole time!!!
I think it will kill the fun for FH ... think about him, not your mom
snwb08
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Posted by mandag
Ugh - I'm so tired of the way wedding planning brings up all this life stress...
thanks for the advice!
i hear that. my mom is suddenly insanely obsessed with my shower.
fh is going to vegas. my dad will definitely NOT be invited. my BILs are, but i think he was a little hesitant on that. they are all awesome, but fh's friends were like do you really want her BILs to come and he just doesn't really care. I'm not even sure they will go (one definitely will, the others might not) thought its VEGAS and who doesn't want to go there.
but there was never even a question about my dad getting an invite. i think he would LOL if he did. Just do what I do and set your mom straight (i do it daily )
