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How is your relationship with FH's friends?
FH actually lost a lot of his “friends” after his divorce .. they were forbidden to speak with him, because their wives were friends with his ex. So the few that he still has, I met while I was living in Toronto with him last summer. They are all nice enough .. but I absolutely LOVE his best friend. He is a sweetheart and I am so happy that he will be in our wedding! He has been a huge part of FH’s life for a long time, has been there for him through hard times, including when things have been hard on us due to the distance .. and I’m so grateful that FH can go to someone like him for advice or just to vent. I know he adores me too .. he will message me just to say hi or repeatedly ask me if I booked a flight to Toronto yet. FH told me that the night FH first introduced me to him, his response was “you better ‘lock-her down’ before someone else does because girls like that are hard to find!” .. when I went off to the ladies room. LOL so cute!
FutureMrsGTL
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I have a pretty good relationship with most of FH's friends. Well I should say the ones who are in relationships, married and/or act their age lol. There are a select few that I am really not a fan of, but I don't make a big deal of it because he's been friends with them forever.
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I love this question!
I am friends with FH's friends, but on a limited basis. I dont see them or hear from them unless he makes plans with them in a group. FH's closest friend is not my favorite person bc he cheated on his last long term (live-in) girlfriend and now is dating the woman he cheated with.
The rest of the group are good guys, even if they make stupid drunk mistakes from time to time. Boys!
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I get along well with FH's friends, they're all good guys. Sometimes I get annoyed with his one friend he's known very long, but b/c he lets FH down alot. Other then that as far as I know they like me and I like them! LOL
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my relationship with FH's friends is semi-non existant...only because they all live in Boston--whenever we go up there, we try to see them but its hard because Fh is the youngest of 6 so all of his family wants to see him too...when I do see them though- everything is alll good. He's become a lot closer with my friends (one of my closest guy friends asked him to be a groomsmen in his wedding party even!)
AlexandMike2012
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I get along fine with FH friends....there's a few that I know a lot better than others..we rarely see his friends though...we're more likely to end up hanging out with mine
JRT5412
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My FH doesn't have a group of friends that he hangs out with on a regular basis. Majority of my friends are his friends. So yea I definently get along with those friends.
BENETTA2012
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Posted by AlexandMike2012
I get along fine with FH friends....there's a few that I know a lot better than others..we rarely see his friends though...we're more likely to end up hanging out with mine
THIS!......EXCEPT WE PROBABLY SEE CERTAIN COUPLES FROM EACH GROUP EQUALLY BUT MORE THAN THE OTHERS!
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Posted by AlexandMike2012
I get along fine with FH friends....there's a few that I know a lot better than others..we rarely see his friends though...we're more likely to end up hanging out with mine
Definitely this, except that we usually hang out with family more than we do with our friends
Bride in 2012
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I get along with FH's friends but I can't stand on of his friends. He's single, 30yrs old & just gets obnoxiously out of control drunk at every party. I just don't have the patience to deal with him.
foodgirl785
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Ha this is a fun one to talk about!
I really like some of my FH's friends, the ones that are in serious relationships that is. We don't see those friends as often as I would like tho
He has a few friends that are complete dirt bags (one in particular who cheats on his gf who I happen to know from HS) I find it very difficult to converse with people who have no real substance, but that's why I keep my distance from them. Unfortunately, those are the friends who he talks to the most, so we don't spend too much time as a couple with them.
My friends on the other hand are AWESOME
irisheyezrsmilen
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I get along with his friends better then some of my own sometime LOL iguess threw out the years we've all become very close. Especially when his friends got GF also. so now we do a lot of couple's things or I even just hang out with the gf LOL through the years his group has gotten a bit smaller tho, between the friends who don't wanna do that 'relationship thing' and the ones that do. so we bearly see the ones that don't wanna deal with gf's. But no one seems to mind that they aren't always there LOL
love my FH friends tho! I've heard some real horror stories and just soo happy I don't have to deal with any of that.
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Oh hard question...
So I get along with FH's friends, except like someone said before its more of a non-existant relationship.
FH lost a majority of his college friends after breaking up with his ex so his friends now are all a few years younger. Since meeting me FH finally 'grew up' and so he's growing apart from these guys in a big way. They're all really nice people but not my style so I always feel awkward and FH doesn't really see them that much.
I'm really hoping when we move to NJ he will meet some more mature people and maybe even meet some people through my friends and we can start our own mutual group of friends.
pixietina
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FH has like three friends his entire life. It's really sad because growing up I think his soo called friends were just taking advantage of the fact that he had a car and would drive them places where they could get high.
I am not find of his close friends at all and neither are any of my friends. One is just a super emo complainer/debbie downer and the other is a super selfish a-hole (he even admits it). I don't know how such a nice guy attracted these people. Since they are his best friends I just try to grin and bear it.
courtneydemarco12
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I really like his guy friends. His guy friends are so much nicer than his female friends. I relate more to his guy friends then I do to his female friends. His female friends feel threatened by me then the guys.
mara1017
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I have a great relationship with FH friends. I actually speak with some of them separate from my FH!
Jill52787
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I got really lucky, i love all of FH's friends. They are all good guys, most in serious relationships, and all supportive. They are a lot of fun, too!
FH has a few close friends from college. I get along with them fine, but we don't really see them too often because we live in Brooklyn and they're scattered around Jersey (I know, that's not far at all and we def should see them more). His best friend (who he talks to every day and texts nonstop) lives in Boston so we don't see him too often either..
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FH and I met through mutual friends in high school. we hung out with the same group of people, it just took us a little while to actually meet each other. So it's easy for us :)
