Who has been the most supportive during the planning process?
I would love to give this award to FH, but my mom is the one that listens to everything! Outside of mom, I will give that award to the LIW girls- so happy to listen and offer their advice! Poor FH gets caught between some of the drama sometimes, so I can't vent to him!
adelz
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FH wins this all the way. He's been there through every single decision
allornil
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That would be my MOH and best friend. We have different tastes in things but she has great opinions and is really positive about everything.
FutureJOC
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Aside from FH of course, definitely my mom. She's been there with me for every single appointment I've asked her to go on with me. She bought me my dress and all my accesories for the day of. She's throwing me my shower. She's always there for me whenever I have a question about something I'm not sure of or if I need her opinion on something. She's even gone to the church to get some answers for me when I couldn't.
She's just been totally awesome durng the whole process!
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my roommate, who is a BM. I have been dragging here everywhere! but she loves it so its not that she is too put out.
Its funny because she has been w her bf for 2 years and they are talking bout marraige and now that I am dragging her around she loves it bc it is giving her ideas
FH has been pretty good w ideas but when it comes down to actually going to appts thats a different story
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I haven't officially asked people to be BMs, so I can't say one of them, though the one that would be my MOH (if we have MOH and best man) has been super supportive.
I think my FMIL has been the most supportive, actually.
Im getting Married
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Besides FH I would say my mom. She always supports me in whatever I do
LindyBride22
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FH has been amazing, I have another BM who is also wedding planning so I dont feel so bad bouncing ideas off of her, and then of course everyone on here!!!
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sorry FH but ur momma's getting this award! she's always so helpful and sometimes taking care of things for us (without being overbearing)! she even set up my appt for 2 tailors so i can get my dresses altered! love her!
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Posted by IrishAli
Who has been the most supportive during the planning process?
FH has been wonderful. He goes to every appointment with me and actually expresses interest and opinions in our wedding conversations. He may not be as concerned with, say, the shade of pink of the roses that we choose for the centerpieces as I am, but he does get into it. Its important to him, but I think more than anything he knows how important it all is to me.
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FH hands down. I am paranoid about talking about the wedding to my friends (cept LIW ) since I don't want to bore them so FH gets the brunt of complaints, venting, planning ideas and he's handled it all very well!
Now that we're closer, my MOH has really stepped it up though and just emailed me a list yesterday of venues for the bridal shower that she's researched.
chreesta
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Definitely my LIW ladies!
and FH most of the time
martea36
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My mom and you guys are tied...then my MOH, then FH
you girls are great! Thanks for all your help!
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My MOH (also my sil Jill) she has come to a few appts with me, is planning my bridal shower, and is always there for me to vent! I don't know what I would do without her.. FH comes in a close 2nd place, he has come to almost all the appts with me, and can vent to him too, just not about certain things - I don't want to start arguments with him over his side of the family...
And there is always you ladies, I don't know how anyone could plan a wedding without all the help and advice and everything else you ladies do!! Seriously, liweddings ladies rocksssssss! & I love you all!
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Definitely FH. He is a planner, just like me, so he is involved in everything!!
My mom, unfortunately, has been the least supportive
meghan13
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FH. He really is so good with everything!
Richiesgirl
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It would have to go to my bridesmaid Alisha-she has been my support system 100% of the way and then my FH
Pacie
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by far FH and my mom - I
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It has to be FH, he has been 100% supportive and coming along to every appt with vendor. However, my mother in the other hand is there to listen when I'm confused or need to vent. Hats off to the coolest FH and mom.
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one of my BMs - who is a fellow LIW'er - she has come to countless vendor meetings with me, lets me vent about anything and everything, and is always there to bounce ideas off of.
my mom and sister have been listening to me ramble on and on and on (lol) about everything wedding related...they've been troopers.
FH was a pain in my butt early in the planning stages but he's really stepped up lately in terms of support. he's not picking out floral arrangements with me, but he shows interest (probably fakes interest lol) in everything, and lets me vent when i'm overwhelmed. he offers to help with anything i need help with, but just having him say that is enough.
