WEIRD( Long)

There is this girl that i used to be great friends with. We attended the same church along with our parents. Anyway a year and a half ago i invited her to my engagement party. I even hand delivered the invitation. She didn't come and never called to say why. We haven't spoken since. I din't invite her to my wedding because i figured she didn't want to be friends with me. O, and i forgot to mention that over the summer i saw her at a barbecue, and i'm sure she saw me. She looked straight at me and didn't say hello. To make the long story short, My parents got invited to her wedding which is at the end of November. Her parents found out that i got married a few weeks ago and they weren't invited. Yesterday i get an invitation in the mail from her. She found out that i got married and didn't invite her. So is she trying to make me feel bad?What should i do. Should i go tho this wedding or just decline. My parents are going.
They love weddings.

can you talk to her before?? and say what you have to regarding the bbq etc.?
And will you feel uncomfortable going even though you love weddings?

you can either have your parents go, and respond 'no' for you and you send a gift

or

if you want to go,you can contact her via phone or email and say something like:

'i was hurt and disappointed that i didnt see you at my engagement party and then received no explaination why. since then, we lost touch. when i planned my wedding guest list, we were limited with the number and I did not know if you would still want to come.

however, i wanted you to know that i was glad to receive an invitation to your wedding and that my parents and i will be attending. I hope that whatever the reason we lost touch that we can get over it and move on to the next chapter of our lives! looking forward to seeing you!'

it all depends on what you want to convey

nah...

i wouldn't even give an explanantion... it was your wedding and you could've invited whomever you wanted.

if you think it'll be weird seeing her again, just decline and send a gift through your parents.