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***welcoming ceremony***long-sorry

phyl Posted:

***welcoming ceremony***long-sorry

I saw that a few of you have asked about this...I am the one that had one for Julianne...back on 4/5.

We are an interfaith couple- I'm Catholic and DH is Jewish. WE decided to raise our children ( only have one right now!) exposed to BOTH religions.

Our wedding ceremony was interfaith...presided by a rabbi and a Monsegneur. It was a GREAT ceremony ..and they explained each part of it to all the guests...so us Catholics learned a thing or 2 about our own religion!

So, for J was did the same thing. Not all diocese offer this type of ceremony. This was held at ST Thomas the Apostle Church in rockville ctr. ..in the church.
The first part of the ceremony was presided over by the rabbi.
He spoke about our blessed event...while DH and I, his parents and the g-dparents stood in the pulpit.
He spoke about the wonderful addtion to ALL our lives, explianed the 'naming' part of the ceremony..why she has a hebrew name and alos explained how we came to call her Julianne Sarah.
He spoke about my parents as well.(of course I cried). He included our guests in as much of the prayers as possible, said a blessing in Hebrew, and we were given some wine to drink.

Then the Monsig. came out, they shook hands and that part of the ceremony began explaining what baptism was about, what the symbols on the candle were, explained about the bib he gave her. He spoke about blessing her ears and her mouth. How we all must be careful what we say around her, that she is a sponge right now and will learn how to act and speak from listening to us.
Asked the G-dparents to be good examples of what a good moral person should be, and to make sure to be an active part of her life.

Then he poured the holy water over her- NO CRYING! yay...and he even said a blessing over Rob and I ...and mentioned how he had married us and how we have taken another step in faith by having a child.

Was a beautiful and touching ceremony.

I am so glad that our friend videoed it for us!
christine1221 Posted:

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sounds so beautiful ... maybe its the preggo hormones, but I'm teary reading about it!!!
phyl Posted:

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I am actually glad that you are teary- because I was the whole time I was writing it!

christine1221 Posted:

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What terrific memories. I will have to tell my friend about this ... she'll be looking for something similar when the time comes for her. Thanks for sharing!
michele31 Posted:

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It sounds so beautiful and personalized!

HeatherandNick Posted:

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Phyl everything sounds beautiful!

LaurenDM Posted:

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Can you explain the godparents? Did they have to be Catholic/Christian? Did they have to promise anything about raising the child in any particular religion? Did the ceremony have to be held in a church? Could it be held in a restaurant (private room, of course), for example????

Kathi Posted:

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Phyl, thank you so much for posting this. It sounds like it was just what you wanted for Julianne. We're planning to do the same thing. I have to contact my parish (in RVC Diocese) to see if they'll *allow* it. We also want to use the Rabbi who married us, we'll see if he's willing to do it. Otherwise, I'll need your recommendation!

One question: how did it go over w/ Rob's family? Did they all attend the church? Steve is concerned that his family won't come to church, just the party. I know we can't please everyone, but I'm hoping that my IL's respect our decision and participate in our Peanut's ceremony.



phyl Posted:

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g-dparents are my bro-catholic..and my sil-jewish. Cannot be held in a hall,restaurant,etc as the church still considers this a holy sacrament. BUT can be held in the rectory where there isnt any crucifixes,etc...g-dparents swore to help bring up J in a loving, morale, respectful way and to be there for her and for her parents and to talk to her about the world and about g-d...were reminded to be careful how they conducted themselves astound her- 2b caregul what they did and said..as she will model herself after the loved ones around her.

phyl Posted:

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oh... all of robs fam that could come ,did. they ssar in the church too. all of them told us how beautiful the ceremony was ...one joked and said it was so nice he may join THIS congregation...:0)

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