well here's my goodbye...

Original post by 20mrsc10

Jun 23, 2010 10:02 AM

but not the one i was expecting

fh left me last night, and i cant believe that he did this..he made it abundantly clear that it wasn't cold feet..

i'll miss you girls, and i'll try to pop in once and awhile to see your wedding pics-you were an invaluable resource of ideas and support throughout this process

also-please dont say anything on fb yet-i still need to call all my guests

IrinaBNY Posted: Jun 23, 2010 05:46 PM

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Sending you BIG hugs!!! I'm so sorry

canmigs Posted: Jun 23, 2010 06:05 PM

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I am so sorry!!!

joctorre Posted: Jun 23, 2010 06:15 PM

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I am soooooo sorry!!!!!

ae32010 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 06:41 PM

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christine825 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 07:10 PM

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Kayla, your kidding right?? I'm friggin crying for you right now!! I am so sorry... no one should ever have to go through this and especially you. I am just so sorry, there are no other words.

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 07:30 PM

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I am so sorry If you need anything we're here for you

soonT0beMrsD Posted: Jun 23, 2010 07:48 PM

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i cannot believe this !!! im so sorry !! hang in there !!

Nina1010 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 07:54 PM

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Kayla, I am sure you're feeling a million different things right now and cannot know how much pain and confusion there is. I do know that so many people in your life and on this board are willing to be the shoulder you need to lean on or the drinking buddy you need to go out with. I am so sorry things are really crazy for you right now. I hope you'll be able to say one day soon that it was for the best. You deserve better than this.

Panamasweet Posted: Jun 23, 2010 08:00 PM

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My heart hurts for you right now. I am truly sorry you are going through this. Maybe you guys will talk soon and he will realize he made a mistake.

Drues_Girl Posted: Jun 23, 2010 08:06 PM

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ugh im so sorry

elisa112101 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 08:42 PM

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mikendeanna Posted: Jun 23, 2010 08:44 PM

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OMG I am soooooooooo sorry !!

Jessica612 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 09:40 PM

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so sorry maybe you guys can talk out whatever it is that happened?

MrsC2010 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 09:44 PM

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Kayla, my love. I havent been on all day, but I told you how I feel and you know I am here for you.

I want to kick his arse...and I am so sad for you. seriously all day since i found out I have been on the verge of tears. I wish you didn't have to go through this. Like I told you earlier today, I am here for you for anything you need. no matter what. Love you to death xoxo!

Im getting Married Posted: Jun 23, 2010 09:48 PM

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So sorry

bluj786 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 10:25 PM

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i am sooo sorry that you are going through this. no one deserves what you are going through right now. and he should be the one to make all the phone calls. your better off without him. hang in there, it will get better.

i just have to ask, did u get your dress from lilettes?? i was talking to tone of he girls that own it the other day amd she told me about a bride that the groom just said he didnt want to get married. i was soooo mad at that guy then. and if its possibly a LIW girl im even madder

hang in there, and we are all here for you!

panthern1 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 11:29 PM

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Im so terribly sorry that you are going through this. But try to see this as a blessing is disguise. At least you found out what his feelings were before you married him. I cant imagine how hard this must be, but just remember that no matter what you deserve someone better.