well im getting the silent treatment

from m y mom and dad. my mom acts like she is 5 yrs old and she get this from her mom and that is why the family isnt together anymore. Makes you wonder, she is going to break this family up too. She and my dad ever since we fought on Sunday when they walk by me she and my dad give me a dirty look and then i caught her give me the finger at times too. they are making me depressed over it and me worrying if they are even coming to the wedding and at this point i dont care! why should i have someone there that will ruin my day. Oh and just incase you didnt know my mom is crazy.

She will talk to me after she goes to church on saturday, what kind of catholic is that ??????

i am so sorry to hear that they are stressing you out... i hope it gets better.. try and focus on you and FH and forget about their drama...

i'm so sorry your goling through this. TRy to raise yourself above the petty BS and be the bigger person. Don't let them ruin your day or put a damper on your wedding plans

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Posted by pandafish519

i am so sorry to hear that they are stressing you out... i hope it gets better.. try and focus on you and FH and forget about their drama...

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i wish i could really, but it just hurts that a mother and father can do this to a daughter. If even make you wonder if your even loved by them. She will say i love you and kiss my other brothers and sister but she wont do it to me. Im like her mistake that shouldnt have happened. i just feel bad because im so stressed and depressed over this that i feel like i taking it out on FH and i feel so bad. He always tells me that its great not to hear her voice. But to me it hurts.

Oh my gosh! I'm soo sorry to hear this!
Try to forget about it and think of the fabby new life you will have after you and Fh are married!

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Posted by pandafish519

i am so sorry to hear that they are stressing you out... i hope it gets better.. try and focus on you and FH and forget about their drama...

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i wish i could really, but it just hurts that a mother and father can do this to a daughter. If even make you wonder if your even loved by them. She will say i love you and kiss my other brothers and sister but she wont do it to me. Im like her mistake that shouldnt have happened. i just feel bad because im so stressed and depressed over this that i feel like i taking it out on FH and i feel so bad. He always tells me that its great not to hear her voice. But to me it hurts.

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oh my!!! i am SO sorry!!! if that is the case than you really need to distance yourself from them and really make the effort not to be taken down by that. surround yourself with people that care about you and show you that they do. have you ever tried talking to her?

I am so sorry they are being so immature!! It *****. They are your parents they should show you some respect!! Whatever the fight was about (and i am sorry I don't remember) they need to get over!!! It is sad they are pushing their daughter away.

Im so sorry to hear this ... its sad when this behavior comes from your own parents ... what triggered the fight to begin with? Im surprised that your dad isnt more understanding knowing how your mom is

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Posted by pandafish519

i am so sorry to hear that they are stressing you out... i hope it gets better.. try and focus on you and FH and forget about their drama...

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i wish i could really, but it just hurts that a mother and father can do this to a daughter. If even make you wonder if your even loved by them. She will say i love you and kiss my other brothers and sister but she wont do it to me. Im like her mistake that shouldnt have happened. i just feel bad because im so stressed and depressed over this that i feel like i taking it out on FH and i feel so bad. He always tells me that its great not to hear her voice. But to me it hurts.

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oh my!!! i am SO sorry!!! if that is the case than you really need to distance yourself from them and really make the effort not to be taken down by that. surround yourself with people that care about you and show you that they do. have you ever tried talking to her?

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i have but she never changes, One time last summer she broke her ankle and leg and had to have surgery. I was the only one taken care of her. She was home and recovered it was my neiece baptism and i was sleeping at 11pm and i was woking my my mother screaming i ran downstiars to see why, she was on the floor crying i was trying to help her up and she would get up. so i tried picking her up and she throw a chair at me punched me and hit me. I just lefted her there and went it my room to cry. the next day was the baptism and i had brusies all over me i had to put cover up on so no one knew what happened. I take alot of crap from my mom and when i we talk about it she get insulted and then she wont talk to me again. like they say the truth hurts!

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Posted by pandafish519

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Posted by pandafish519

i am so sorry to hear that they are stressing you out... i hope it gets better.. try and focus on you and FH and forget about their drama...

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i wish i could really, but it just hurts that a mother and father can do this to a daughter. If even make you wonder if your even loved by them. She will say i love you and kiss my other brothers and sister but she wont do it to me. Im like her mistake that shouldnt have happened. i just feel bad because im so stressed and depressed over this that i feel like i taking it out on FH and i feel so bad. He always tells me that its great not to hear her voice. But to me it hurts.

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oh my!!! i am SO sorry!!! if that is the case than you really need to distance yourself from them and really make the effort not to be taken down by that. surround yourself with people that care about you and show you that they do. have you ever tried talking to her?

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i have but she never changes, One time last summer she broke her ankle and leg and had to have surgery. I was the only one taken care of her. She was home and recovered it was my neiece baptism and i was sleeping at 11pm and i was woking my my mother screaming i ran downstiars to see why, she was on the floor crying i was trying to help her up and she would get up. so i tried picking her up and she throw a chair at me punched me and hit me. I just lefted her there and went it my room to cry. the next day was the baptism and i had brusies all over me i had to put cover up on so no one knew what happened. I take alot of crap from my mom and when i we talk about it she get insulted and then she wont talk to me again. like they say the truth hurts!

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WOW, sounds like you really need to distance yourself from your mom , she seems like a distructive peronality. When you get married and live with your FH she will miss the things you do for her and probably regret the way she treated you. Do you live with your FH?

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Posted by Angelica80

Don't worry. Everything works out. No one has a perfect family. I go through the same thing with my family. My FH family is so nice and easy going, unlike mine. Your parents probably don't even realize what they are doing is hurting you soo much. No matter what any tells you just remember they are still your mother and father and they love you even if it does not show. You FH should not say bad things about your fam to you it only makes things worse.

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i love my Fh family, i feel like im loved more by them, and that is why im always over there.His mom is alway hugging me and kissing me. The first time she did that she was like ok where are you arms to hug me back. I told her sorry and that i wasnt use to that. and she was like ok we are going to change that. She like we do that alot here. at first it was weird but then it got better

I feel your pain! Not presently, but I have been where you are and I know how hard it is to deal with!!! It sooo immature and unbelievable that your parents are pulling this nonsense!! It is sooo frustrating and beyond that, it is hurtful. This is supposed to be a happy time in your life and here are your PARENTS being the ones to cause you pain.

I am so sorry hun... if you need anything let me know!!

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Posted by littlepixie12

Im so sorry to hear this ... its sad when this behavior comes from your own parents ... what triggered the fight to begin with? Im surprised that your dad isnt more understanding knowing how your mom is

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we had a fight on sunday because i do alot for my parents and my sister moved into the house and does nothing. So i said have chris do it and then my mom blow it out. I said i do everthing and get nothing in return. She kept saying that she was going to pay for this and pay for that for the wedding and i have recieved nothing and then i pay for it. She then was like ok then me and your father arent coming to the wedding. My parents gave 7000 to my brothers and sister when they got married. Im unemployed right now and then she goes to say that im a lowlife and that i should get out of this house and let see is you can pay for this wedding yourself. I told her that ive paid everything myself anyway

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Posted by kabo0831

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Posted by pandafish519

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Posted by kabo0831

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Posted by pandafish519

i am so sorry to hear that they are stressing you out... i hope it gets better.. try and focus on you and FH and forget about their drama...

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i wish i could really, but it just hurts that a mother and father can do this to a daughter. If even make you wonder if your even loved by them. She will say i love you and kiss my other brothers and sister but she wont do it to me. Im like her mistake that shouldnt have happened. i just feel bad because im so stressed and depressed over this that i feel like i taking it out on FH and i feel so bad. He always tells me that its great not to hear her voice. But to me it hurts.

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oh my!!! i am SO sorry!!! if that is the case than you really need to distance yourself from them and really make the effort not to be taken down by that. surround yourself with people that care about you and show you that they do. have you ever tried talking to her?

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i have but she never changes, One time last summer she broke her ankle and leg and had to have surgery. I was the only one taken care of her. She was home and recovered it was my neiece baptism and i was sleeping at 11pm and i was woking my my mother screaming i ran downstiars to see why, she was on the floor crying i was trying to help her up and she would get up. so i tried picking her up and she throw a chair at me punched me and hit me. I just lefted her there and went it my room to cry. the next day was the baptism and i had brusies all over me i had to put cover up on so no one knew what happened. I take alot of crap from my mom and when i we talk about it she get insulted and then she wont talk to me again. like they say the truth hurts!

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WOW, sounds like you really need to distance yourself from your mom , she seems like a distructive peronality. When you get married and live with your FH she will miss the things you do for her and probably regret the way she treated you. Do you live with your FH?

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do i wish i did at this moment. but i have to stick it out for 7 more months

I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. I don't know what I would do if my mother acted that way towards me. It seems like talking to her does not really help, what if you wrote her a note with everything you wanted to say... if she reads it she might see how bad this is hurting you.

Again i am sorry! heres a hug

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Posted by littlepixie12

Im so sorry to hear this ... its sad when this behavior comes from your own parents ... what triggered the fight to begin with? Im surprised that your dad isnt more understanding knowing how your mom is

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we had a fight on sunday because i do alot for my parents and my sister moved into the house and does nothing. So i said have chris do it and then my mom blow it out. I said i do everthing and get nothing in return. She kept saying that she was going to pay for this and pay for that for the wedding and i have recieved nothing and then i pay for it. She then was like ok then me and your father arent coming to the wedding. My parents gave 7000 to my brothers and sister when they got married. Im unemployed right now and then she goes to say that im a lowlife and that i should get out of this house and let see is you can pay for this wedding yourself. I told her that ive paid everything myself anyway

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Wow, IMO i wouldnt take money from her if I was you, you will feel better if you pay for it yourself ... even though it might hurt now, she will have nothing to hold over you in the future. Can you move in with FH?

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Posted by Utterhappiness

I feel your pain! Not presently, but I have been where you are and I know how hard it is to deal with!!! It sooo immature and unbelievable that your parents are pulling this nonsense!! It is sooo frustrating and beyond that, it is hurtful. This is supposed to be a happy time in your life and here are your PARENTS being the ones to cause you pain.

I am so sorry hun... if you need anything let me know!!

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i think our parents must be the same age. Its like that is how our parents were brought up and that is how they are going to treat there kids. i always said i never want to be like my mom and that i dont want to bring up my kids that way ever.

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Posted by kabo0831

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Posted by littlepixie12

Im so sorry to hear this ... its sad when this behavior comes from your own parents ... what triggered the fight to begin with? Im surprised that your dad isnt more understanding knowing how your mom is

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we had a fight on sunday because i do alot for my parents and my sister moved into the house and does nothing. So i said have chris do it and then my mom blow it out. I said i do everthing and get nothing in return. She kept saying that she was going to pay for this and pay for that for the wedding and i have recieved nothing and then i pay for it. She then was like ok then me and your father arent coming to the wedding. My parents gave 7000 to my brothers and sister when they got married. Im unemployed right now and then she goes to say that im a lowlife and that i should get out of this house and let see is you can pay for this wedding yourself. I told her that ive paid everything myself anyway

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Wow, IMO i wouldnt take money from her if I was you, you will feel better if you pay for it yourself ... even though it might hurt now, she will have nothing to hold over you in the future. Can you move in with FH?

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if she give me the money im going to give it back i dont want nothing from her . FH live with his family and when i was in this fight on sunday FMIL said that i know you dont want to move in with us and you just have to deal with this for another 7mth. so that is out of the ? but i know if it gets worst she will let me.

so sorry you r going through this..hope u feel better