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went dress shopping on sat!!!!

dCa51899 Posted:

went dress shopping on sat!!!!

what a great day! I had soooo much fun, can't wait to do it again!
I started out at BR in Massapequa and had Susan as my consultant. She is amazing, soooo sweet - I loved her. She reminded me of my friend's mom and I felt so comfortable with her. I told her a few things that I liked, showed her 2 dresses that I printed out and she went off looking for dresses. She came back and had pulled some really amazing gowns. I feel like I didn't even tell her that much but she just understood what I was looking for and I loved everything she picked.

Then we went to Lillette's. I know I've read a few times about how amazing Gerri is and to recommend her when you make your appt. Of course, I forgot to request her when I made my appt, but luckily, she was my consultant. Wow, she has the patience of a saint, I must have tried on a million dresses and I was there for over 3 hours. She never made me feel rushed, she just said 'ok which gown do you want to try next?' I was shocked that she wasn't kicking me out of the store lol. I can't believe how great she was!

On to the dresses.....so now here's the hard part. I thought I knew what I wanted. I'm the type that's been dreaming of my wedding dress forever. I always dreamed of a gorgeous satin ball gown, with some detail, not over the top, with a dramatic train, and silk covered buttons. Recently, I started loving trumpet-style dresses, but figured they wouldn't flatter my body type since I carry all my weight in my stomach. When I tried them on, however, I thought I looked pretty good (if I do say so myself ) and I liked how the dresses showed off my shape more than a ballgown (esp if I end up losing the weight that I want to, I kinda want to flaunt it lol).
Since this style is not what I always pictured myself in, I'm having a really hard time with this new image...the 2 styles are totally different and I just don't know which direction to go in...go with what I always pictured or with the style I loved in person? Either way, I don't think I found 'the one' but I just don't know what direction to go in the next time I shop....

unfortunately no pix, boo ... i really wish they'd change that rule! Its so hard to remember what they looked like on my body
kedra5 Posted:

Re: went dress shopping on sat!!!!


Posted by dCa51899

what a great day! I had soooo much fun, can't wait to do it again!
I started out at BR in Massapequa and had Susan as my consultant. She is amazing, soooo sweet - I loved her. She reminded me of my friend's mom and I felt so comfortable with her. I told her a few things that I liked, showed her 2 dresses that I printed out and she went off looking for dresses. She came back and had pulled some really amazing gowns. I feel like I didn't even tell her that much but she just understood what I was looking for and I loved everything she picked.

Then we went to Lillette's. I know I've read a few times about how amazing Gerri is and to recommend her when you make your appt. Of course, I forgot to request her when I made my appt, but luckily, she was my consultant. Wow, she has the patience of a saint, I must have tried on a million dresses and I was there for over 3 hours. She never made me feel rushed, she just said 'ok which gown do you want to try next?' I was shocked that she wasn't kicking me out of the store lol. I can't believe how great she was!

On to the dresses.....so now here's the hard part. I thought I knew what I wanted. I'm the type that's been dreaming of my wedding dress forever. I always dreamed of a gorgeous satin ball gown, with some detail, not over the top, with a dramatic train, and silk covered buttons. Recently, I started loving trumpet-style dresses, but figured they wouldn't flatter my body type since I carry all my weight in my stomach. When I tried them on, however, I thought I looked pretty good (if I do say so myself ) and I liked how the dresses showed off my shape more than a ballgown (esp if I end up losing the weight that I want to, I kinda want to flaunt it lol).
Since this style is not what I always pictured myself in, I'm having a really hard time with this new image...the 2 styles are totally different and I just don't know which direction to go in...go with what I always pictured or with the style I loved in person? Either way, I don't think I found 'the one' but I just don't know what direction to go in the next time I shop....

unfortunately no pix, boo ... i really wish they'd change that rule! Its so hard to remember what they looked like on my body



SOO glad that you had a great experience!!

Its funny that you changed your mind about the style...i was the same way. I always thought that I'd get the ballgown style but once I tried on the fit and flare...I was in LOVE!! I never thought it would work with my body shape but its actually perfect for that style of dress.

I wish they'd let you take pictures...next time you go you'll just have to sneak a few in!! hahaha
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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how fun! Damn straight, you should be flaunting what you got, especially on your wedding day
DCgirl82 Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

how fun! Damn straight, you should be flaunting what you got, especially on your wedding day



Heck Yes! haha
WeezyGirl2354 Posted:

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So glad you had a good day I def say go with the style dress you love on your body now.

I understand youve had the dream of the big ball gown but if you love the trumpet style on you then go for it
dCa51899 Posted:

Re: went dress shopping on sat!!!!


Posted by WeezyGirl2354

So glad you had a good day I def say go with the style dress you love on your body now.

I understand youve had the dream of the big ball gown but if you love the trumpet style on you then go for it



thanks for all your responses girls! I guess I'm also confused bc while the trumpet looked good while I was standing, I don't know how it'll look when I'm sitting - what if my big belly just looks gross?! eww The ball gown is much easier to wear and I know when its closer to the big day, I wouldn't be obsessing over my weight like I would with the trumpet

decisions descions! ugh thank goodness i started early
Notwedyet08 Posted:

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sounds like you had a great time dress shopping!

You should like me-i always envisioned myself in a princess ball gown; but FH wants me to wear something more fitted to show off my figure. I'm sure i'll love whatever dress i pick; but it will be different from how i always pictured myself looking!
MissingLI Posted:

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I would say to keep trying dresses on in both styles. You never know which dress is going to be the one. Don't limit yourself, enjoy!

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