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Went to a baby shower today & now I have..updated...

N.Y.bride Posted:

Went to a baby shower today & now I have..updated...

the bug. The bug that is.

We know we're having one more. Buty now is not a good time b/c of my job, but all our other reasons are great! Besides my son is FOUR, How far apart do I really want them?

How long are you going to wait?

I'm 28 and my DH is 36.

ETA: I just put our ages, just because
and we just talked about it again and decided once Ive finished my masters, which is NOVEMBER!!!!!!!!
Happybride2005 Posted:

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we're not going to wait to long since i'll be 34 a week before the wedding

Jackie&Justin Posted:

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We are waiting years since I am only 21....But hey, if you want one, have one!!!!!!!
N.Y.bride Posted:

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I wish it was that easy because I would SO do it. My job just *****!!!!! I should be grateful to have it, but I dont feel that way
micmar Posted:

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Posted by Happybride2005

we're not going to wait to long since i'll be 34 a week before the wedding



I'm right behind you, 34 in January.
Happybride2005 Posted:

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Posted by micmar


Posted by Happybride2005

we're not going to wait to long since i'll be 34 a week before the wedding



I'm right behind you, 34 in January.



people r joking that i need to start right after the wedding
Mrs_B Posted:

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We had this talk last night. We are going to wait a year
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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If it were up to me, I would get pregnant right after we get back from the HM! (we're both in our mid 30's).

he wants to wait... for what, I have no idea!
prindia Posted:

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my baby is 10 years old sometimes, I wish I did not wait so long to have another but I think we are ready now to have another one

micmar Posted:

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Posted by Happybride2005


Posted by micmar


Posted by Happybride2005

we're not going to wait to long since i'll be 34 a week before the wedding



I'm right behind you, 34 in January.



people r joking that i need to start right after the wedding




I hate when people say that time is running out. I think it all depends upon the individual. Some 38 year olds are in better shape than 25 year olds. So who knows. Not that I want to be 45 giving birth, but 34 is not too late to have one.
DUCKS2001 Posted:

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we are going for it right away i will be 31 and he will be close to 35 next yr. its your decision and if finacially you can swingit.

Love_my_Freddybear Posted:

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We are starting right away. Not b/c I'm 29 (ok 30 in 3 months) but b/c my daughter is almost 6. I don't want her to be too much older than them.
February05 Posted:

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2-3 years, when we're making the big bucks
J&S Posted:

Re: Went to a baby shower today & now I have..updated...

At least 3 years, I want to have tenure and this will be my first year.

N.Y.bride Posted:

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Congrats J & S
Tenure is my problem too.
Last year was my first FULL time year, so I have 2 more, but just dont think I can wait that long My son is already 4!
icequeen4700 Posted:

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our daughter is going to be 3 in october, so we are starting right away! we want them to be close enough in age!!!

FallBride05 Posted:

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Posted by Happybride2005


Posted by micmar


Posted by Happybride2005

we're not going to wait to long since i'll be 34 a week before the wedding



I'm right behind you, 34 in January.



people r joking that i need to start right after the wedding



I'll be 35 in Apr. FH will be 40 in less than a month. People are taking bets in my office that we're going ot have a HM baby!
jeanla4c Posted:

Re: Went to a baby shower today & now I have..updated...

Just turned 31, but want to finish my doctorate or at least get to dissertation stage so that means at least 2 more years.....

angelbear217 Posted:

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We've been talking about this a lot lately. As it looks right now we are going to start trying in January which is when I turn 30.

ckgmwedding Posted:

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I could be right now! It terrifying and exciting all at once!

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