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what a long couple of months, neeeeeed to vent

sapole Posted:

what a long couple of months, neeeeeed to vent

so i really havent been on here much, but i want to say i am glad to be back. my mother has been very sick. first she had some heart problems where she had to be shocked into a normal rhythm, then she was diagnosed with breast cancer. this was the second time. she first had it when i was 14 and i honestly dont remember much other than being scared out of my mind. she did great back then. now....4 days after the breast cancer diagnosis, she had appendicitis and it got really complicated and was in the hospital for 19 days. 2 weeks later she had to have a bilateral mastectomy. she is doing awesome and she is now home but we have had the worst couple of months. she is going through a lot emotionally and i am having a hard time helping her bc she is my rock and she is going through so much right now. everyday i think how can i plan a wedding with all that she is going through? i want to relax and enjoy this special time and i am so happy that she is doing great and will be fine but am having a hard time feeling ok when she is so down. ugh just had to get that off my chest, i hope each of you remember how precious life is and cherish every moment we all have with the people that mean so much to us.

krislee316 Posted:

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so sorry to hear about that but thank God she is doing better my thoughts and prayers are with u and ur mom

galgirl Posted:

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tinadansr Posted:

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I hope your mom is feeling better and has a speedy recovery... Sending good wishes and vibes, we are all hear to help you plan whneever you need us
tammi2308 Posted:

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You sound like a very strong person..glad to hear that things are loking much better....
dazies1011 Posted:

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Im sooo sorry to hear this!!! Hope she is feeling better.
lizzie217 Posted:

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Im sorry hun...thinking of you
Firkx3 Posted:

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That is terrible! But thank God she seems to be doing better now! My heart goes out to you and your family

jmd75 Posted:

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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how hard it is when your rock is going through a tough time. I'm sure though that she is getting her energy and positiveness from you. That's what family does - lean on each other when they have to. I'm glad she has made it through everything and hope for a quick road to recovery. Like you said you have to cherish everyday and let those who we love know it. We are always here for you to lean on too
crazeee18 Posted:

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ur family is in my prayers..im glad that ur mom is doing better

MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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What a strong woman you are...hang in there....we are hear to help plan if you need us!

Aristotelina Posted:

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Im so sorry. My prayers are wth you and your family and like Mrs. DrinkH said, we are here to help!!
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