oh well.....sorry girl....but what's done is done now. and you know what - be thankful. your last arguement was that his sister would not care - which is obviously wrong - otherwise she wouldn't have invited herself and her BF into the BP. so its better than you or FH approaching her saying - 'do you think he will really care?'
it is what it is - and sometimes you have to do things for family.....they are your family now...
oh....and give ginzaloon a break - he got cornered and probably didn't know what to do.
so sorry....
ginzalooon always gets cornered w/his family...its ridiculous....i'm just so upset, i almost just cried at work, LOL. i'm just stressed w/work, pickin DJ/photo...EVERTHING
what i would love is if he suddenly had to 'work' that night...
mtdr1106
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oh well.....sorry girl....but what's done is done now. and you know what - be thankful. your last arguement was that his sister would not care - which is obviously wrong - otherwise she wouldn't have invited herself and her BF into the BP. so its better than you or FH approaching her saying - 'do you think he will really care?'
it is what it is - and sometimes you have to do things for family.....they are your family now...
oh....and give ginzaloon a break - he got cornered and probably didn't know what to do.
so sorry....
ginzalooon always gets cornered w/his family...its ridiculous....i'm just so upset, i almost just cried at work, LOL. i'm just stressed w/work, pickin DJ/photo...EVERTHING
what i would love is if he suddenly had to 'work' that night...
i know - it totally $ucks - but i think that this jerky bird psuedo BIL is probably the least of your worries. Its ok to get upset - but unfortunately what is done is done...
i think you are just super stressed.....just book duet already and get your photographer out of the way....you will feel so much better...
N.Y.bride
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No way! This is your WEDDING! Not just a party or anything. Its one of the most important days of your life and if you dont want him in the bridal party - then NO WAY! Dont do it just because you feel bad or because the other boyfriends are in it. Trust me if its one thing I learned the hard way, ask only the people who you REALLY want to be in it.
mka06
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Don't invite someone you don't want and who doesn't make an effort for family to be in your wedding!
I was the girlfriend to get asked 5 years ago... the gf of my ex. We'd been together over 5 years and everybody thought it ws a given we'd end up married. Didn't happen. I love ex's bro and sis-in-law, but haven't seen them in years because of breakup issues. I'm sure at this point they regret having me in it.... And, I don't blame them if they feel that way!
julybride06
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It's your wedding have who you want and actually know!!!
