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What do I do?

ladybug78 Posted:

What do I do?

I have a bridesmaid that I grew up with and she used to date my brother for a while...She and my brother broke up but I asked her to be in my bridal party because she was a very good friend before they even started dating..She ordered the dress and paid it in full back in November and that was the last time I have heard from her...She and my brother had a falling out in December so she didn't even come to my engagement party or call me after..I have tried emailing her many times because it is hard to get in touch with her and no response...At this point, I am uncomfortable with her in my wedding...What do I do?
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

Re: What do I do?

IMO, try to reach her a few more times. Send an email, maybe even go to her house.

If that doesn't work, it might be time to consider her no longer in your BP.
suven Posted:

Re: What do I do?

IMO, it sounds like she already 'checked OUT' of your bridal party-probably as a way to hurt your brother.

I would consider her to be done. It's been 5 months already with zero communication...
wood2be Posted:

Re: What do I do?

Wow! I would try calling her or going to see her in person instead of emailing. Let her tell you to your face that she is backing out.

adioguardi Posted:

Re: What do I do?

Somehow you need to contact her and find out if she's still interested in being your BM. Because she is no longer your brother's girlfriend, she may think that you no longer want her in your BP. If you do want her, let her know.

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