what do i do

what do i do

me and FH r fighting a lot lately...hes been having this attitude lately because he says ive been having one. i dont know what to do. im so confused..all the wedding plans are set and we have a son together. i want things to be the way they were when we started dating. its not new and fresh anymore

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sorry

try to talk about it. see if its the stress of all the planning. if its just that you guys need to spark things back up, try doing date nights and literally scheduling special time each week or a couple nights a week just for you guys to share doing something you love. remember what brought you guys together in the first place! maybe you can try doing some of those things you used to, that you both enjoyed.

best wishes.

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I would sit down and just talk to one another about how you each percieve you each are having an attitude. Maybe you can come up with ideas to change that interaction to something positive.

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I think that happens in every relationship. It is all overwhelming. I would try not to fight and make time to do something fun together.

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plan a weekend trip or a night in a hotel....it will spice things up and you can have alone time to talk and have a good time

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I am going through the same thing right now and we have two daughters together I think being a parent , working, and planning a wedding is very overwhelming and I think it will all fall into place after all the planning is over just try and communicate and if you ever need anyone to talk to FM me

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So sorry to hear that, you two probably just need a night w/o planning, w/o your son, just the two of you. Talk about everthing but the wedding. Reconnect, tell him all the stuff you love about him and why you want to spend the rest of your life with him. Good Luck and hopefully everything will work out!