what do i do????
Okay Sorry this is so long but I really need your help.. one of my Bm lives out of town, but she comes back often.. when I asked her to a BM she said she would be honored, (shes been friends with FH since they were young) and I really like her. She said she doesnt work and doesnt have much $ so she cant do the bridal shower thing or bach. party, I said don't worry about it, its more important your there for us on our wedding day!
She ordered her dress with the rest of the girls, paid for half, and today i talk to her, and she asks if I can do her a favor, to lay out the rest of the $$ for her dress ($100) and ship it to her. She doesn't have $$ something about something breaking in her house and costing them $4000... but she doesnt know how soon she will pay us back.. I said I needed to talk to FH I have no $$ left spent to much already and I'd get back to her... I'm so scared shes going to back out though.. we felt like she was backing out a few months ago and i had thought long and hard, and if she was not going to do it I was going to have another friend do it, and just pay the balance on her dress. What do I do, FH said just pay, even though we dont think we'll ever get back the $$ and she hasn't be the greatest friend lately, she was in town this week, and left to go home already and my bridal shower is this Sunday!! she couldn't come a week later? or stay a few more days? And she said she never called when she was here b/c she drank to much and was pretty much hung over the whole time, but drinking costs money.. I don't get it! I don't want to ship the dress and then actually need it, for someone else, espically if I'm paying for it...Sorry so long![]()
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She ordered her dress with the rest of the girls, paid for half, and today i talk to her, and she asks if I can do her a favor, to lay out the rest of the $$ for her dress ($100) and ship it to her. She doesn't have $$ something about something breaking in her house and costing them $4000... but she doesnt know how soon she will pay us back.. I said I needed to talk to FH I have no $$ left spent to much already and I'd get back to her... I'm so scared shes going to back out though.. we felt like she was backing out a few months ago and i had thought long and hard, and if she was not going to do it I was going to have another friend do it, and just pay the balance on her dress. What do I do, FH said just pay, even though we dont think we'll ever get back the $$ and she hasn't be the greatest friend lately, she was in town this week, and left to go home already and my bridal shower is this Sunday!! she couldn't come a week later? or stay a few more days? And she said she never called when she was here b/c she drank to much and was pretty much hung over the whole time, but drinking costs money.. I don't get it! I don't want to ship the dress and then actually need it, for someone else, espically if I'm paying for it...Sorry so long
