what do i do???

I originally was planning part of my HM in antigua at an all inclusive (hermitage bay). Ever since that horrible murder there of the honeymooner, we are considering changing the destination. We were thinking anguilla cap juluca (which is not all inclusive) or somewhere in barbados (dont know what hotel yet).
Anyone been to either of these places and have reviews...tell me what you liked or what you didnt like. I would like to book soon. THANKS!!! :)

check out tripadvisor - people who stayed at various hotels resorts review and rate them, and talk about their likes/dislikes. likely to get more info there.