I just got an email from a freind who i havent seen in a year or so but we communicate via emai sometimes.
sooo she is organizing her cousin's bridal shower and wants to invite me. ok 1. i have literally met her cousin a handful of times and we've never hung out one on one. the extent of our relationship is comments on my space.
2. i am pretty positive i wont be invited to the wedding.
should i go to the shower?
rocketsummer17
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I wouldnt go to the shower if I were in your situation...I would feel incredibly awkward... If your close to the girl then I would say go...But since you dont think your invited to the wedding, I wouldnt go to the shower...
lori7570
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That's odd!!! I wouldn't go...
MarjorieFrank
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That's weird.. I wouldn't go, especially if there would be no one I knew there. It would be awkward not having anyone to hang out with.
cateydee
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these people (from FH's circle) obviously dont know about wedding and other etiquette. once i was invited to a baby shower of one of his random freind's wife. i spoke to this girl like once and i dont know them! he was upset that i didnt go and everyone made a huge deal out of it.
how do i get out of it!?
jcreilly
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i would not go tell her youhave somthing else going on and make plans for another day to have lunch or dinner to catch up
MarjorieFrank
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So sorry..... Maybe you can send her a tiny gift, that may help to lessen the bad feelings and help so a big deal is not made.
little j
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do you want to get to know these ppl better? if not, dont sweat it. if you would like to maybe deepen the relationship it might be somethign to consider. either way, give a small gift....
i actually went to a shower earlier this month from one of my old good friends from HS but now we rarely talk. i was debating on whether or not to go. but i was glad i did. wasnt sure if i would be invited to the wedding either...but i just got the TY card and it said something about seeing us at the wedding.
its a confusing situation. but i think it comes down to a people thing. if you want to get to know them better then think of going. if you are ok with keeping it to myspace and whatnot, dont worry about it. just send a small gift.
GL!
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I agree with everyone's suggestions.
if you are getting invited to the shower i would hope you are invited to the wedding! Otherwise its kind of rude.
Talk to your friend about it. Maybe her cousin really likes you and wished you were closer and asked for you to be invited? Would you want her at yours?
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ok so i very well may be weird, but i love going to things like that..i literally will go to everything im invited to unless i have something else i have to do..
haha so i would go..
Jna2010
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i def wouldnt go, its kinda awkward, and random
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Posted by rocketsummer17
I wouldnt go to the shower if I were in your situation...I would feel incredibly awkward... If your close to the girl then I would say go...But since you dont think your invited to the wedding, I wouldnt go to the shower...
I agree.
Nina1010
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I wouldn't go... maybe send her a card with best wishes if anything.
Nina1010
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I wouldn't go...maybe send her a card with best wishes, if anything...
