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What do I do???

Im getting Married Posted:

What do I do???

My FMIL just had her hip and part of of femur replaced. Just spoke to FSIL and she (FMIL) will not be attending the wedding. The Drs won't give her the OK.

I feel so bad for FH (he still doesn't know yet) and on top of that FSIL thinks FFIL may not come to the reception.

Do you think I should have someone (other than our Videographer) tape the wedding to then bring to show FMIL the day after the wedding
JLWSJC Posted:

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Awww, VAnessa, that stinks, I'm sorry

I think sending a video over with a nice message from you about how much they were missed would be really nice.

Are they tech saavy people? Maybe someone could email them clips and photos during the party?
Im getting Married Posted:

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Posted by JLWSJC

Awww, VAnessa, that stinks, I'm sorry

I think sending a video over with a nice message from you about how much they were missed would be really nice.

Are they tech saavy people? Maybe someone could email them clips and photos during the party?



Nope not tech savy at all...but I figure my mom will take lots of pics too so I can get them printed at CVS and bring a portable DVD for her to see at least the ceremony
IrishAli Posted:

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Can someone flip video the ceremony and you can give it to them on DVD?

adelya21 Posted:

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aww do any guests have a vid camera they can use to tape some portions of the reception??

Im getting Married Posted:

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Posted by adelya21

aww do any guests have a vid camera they can use to tape some portions of the reception??



I'm going to ask someone I just have to figure out who...I just found out so tomorrow I'll see who has a camera to record it
adelya21 Posted:

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I hope you find someone!!!

Supermans Posted:

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could someone bring a laptop?

you could skype with her durring the ceremony. just leave the laptop in a seat in the front row.

then she can see it live, and you guys can even blow her a kiss as you walk back up the aisle!!!
hiswifey2011 Posted:

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Posted by Supermans

could someone bring a laptop?

you could skype with her durring the ceremony. just leave the laptop in a seat in the front row.

then she can see it live, and you guys can even blow her a kiss as you walk back up the aisle!!!




i really like this idea!!! hopefully you can work something out!
adelz Posted:

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Posted by hiswifey2011


Posted by Supermans

could someone bring a laptop?

you could skype with her durring the ceremony. just leave the laptop in a seat in the front row.

then she can see it live, and you guys can even blow her a kiss as you walk back up the aisle!!!




i really like this idea!!! hopefully you can work something out!



I like this also.

rosatemp Posted:

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thats so sad im so sorry..i cant even imagine..too bad they cant give her the ok just for a few hrs

thatsmrsr2u Posted:

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Sorry to hear that....

The skype idea is great idea!
Future Mrs H Posted:

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Hey Vanessa-
i dont know if you remember my MIL couldnt make it to my wedding. i dont know if this could be part of the plan (or if you have time) but Jerry and I decided to forgo the outside pictures and inbetween the ceremony and reception went to see his mom. We had the priest come with us and do a simple exchange of vows for her. We will never forget her face when we did this. She was able to see her only child get married.

VCanizalez Posted:

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Omg I am SOOO sorry chica...
I think the skype thng sounds good...

Will keep in prayers
Im getting Married Posted:

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Hey Vanessa-
i dont know if you remember my MIL couldnt make it to my wedding. i dont know if this could be part of the plan (or if you have time) but Jerry and I decided to forgo the outside pictures and inbetween the ceremony and reception went to see his mom. We had the priest come with us and do a simple exchange of vows for her. We will never forget her face when we did this. She was able to see her only child get married.




Thanks Celia,

I'm trying to figure out if we cut a few pics or do them quickly if we can at least stop at the facility before the reception

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