I've gotten very close with my dad's g-friend (who will likely be my stepmom in a few years and i'm very happy about that). But FH feels that some of the wedding bumps along the road are her fault. And so now he doesn't like her (though he did before we started making our plans.) What do I do?
I would remind him that she MAY be your stepmom someday and then she'll be family. Then he'll have to grin and bear it and be nice no matter what so he might as well try to like her now.
Well, as we all know, wedding can bring out the worst in people and can be very stressful ... hopefully the 'clash' between your future stepmom and future husband will diminsh after the wedding. Your FH may f ind himself more at ease after the fact and their realtionship could mend itself. Good lucK!
