What do you and you FH argue about??
And how often do you argue?
Member since
What do you and you FH argue about??
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
We don't argue much. But recently when we do it's about what renovations we're going to do to my house (we're going to buy it from my family before we get married)
My FH has champagne taste and beer pockets![]()
I'm always the rational and logical one. ![]()
My FH has champagne taste and beer pockets
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
we argue about finances. Not really a lot but when we have a lot of stuff due at the same time (hall payment, car insurance, phone bill, wedding. student loans)
With me out of work $$ gets tight.
We dont really argue a lot though. Once in a while we have a tiff but it usually lasts about an hour.
With me out of work $$ gets tight.
We dont really argue a lot though. Once in a while we have a tiff but it usually lasts about an hour.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
We don't fight b/c I am always right
![]()
![]()
![]()
![]()
![]()
Honestly, we never fight. If we do have a disagreement we say our peace and we're done with it - we're very laid back.
Honestly, we never fight. If we do have a disagreement we say our peace and we're done with it - we're very laid back.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
LOL Lori![]()
![]()
I LOVE not arguing. I love that we are so laid back and can speak to each other like adults and work things out. The reationship that I was in prior to FH, my ex and I argued ALL the time. It s ucked!!![]()
I LOVE not arguing. I love that we are so laid back and can speak to each other like adults and work things out. The reationship that I was in prior to FH, my ex and I argued ALL the time. It s ucked!!
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
These are the things that really work my nerves.
him not unpacking the laundry bag after I return from the laundry - his job
cleaning the bathroom (his job)
dishes in the sink (our son's chore)
the kitchen floor (our son's chore)
him not calling when he gets to work
his procratination
no garbage bag in the garbage can
crumbs on the counter top
I am anal about my house and that's why these things might bother me more than the normal person.
These are what we get in to, when we do, not often b/c sometimes I just ignore both of them and do the things myself, then he feels all bad and start pitching in.
Usually when we get in to it, I remind him of the other things that's upsetting to me.
him not unpacking the laundry bag after I return from the laundry - his job
cleaning the bathroom (his job)
dishes in the sink (our son's chore)
the kitchen floor (our son's chore)
him not calling when he gets to work
his procratination
no garbage bag in the garbage can
crumbs on the counter top
I am anal about my house and that's why these things might bother me more than the normal person.
These are what we get in to, when we do, not often b/c sometimes I just ignore both of them and do the things myself, then he feels all bad and start pitching in.
Usually when we get in to it, I remind him of the other things that's upsetting to me.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
We too sometimes argue about the chores around the apartment. I know he works all day and I am home all day but I could use a little help with certain things. I always feel like I am doing dishes. I swear those things must be like rabbits, they are constantly multipling. No matter how empty the sink is I swear within an hour its filled again. I think he secretly puts dishes in the sink.
I clean the ferret's cage once a week and it's so much easier when I have him to help me with that.
Some stuff around here we usually have an argument about and he pitches in - once I start complaining and telling him I need a spa weekend and we should get a maid.
I clean the ferret's cage once a week and it's so much easier when I have him to help me with that.
Some stuff around here we usually have an argument about and he pitches in - once I start complaining and telling him I need a spa weekend and we should get a maid.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
LOL Chippa---I'm in the same situation. I'm not working right now, but I'd still like him to be alittle involved in things at home.
Just 'cause he works, doesn't mean he's off the hook!!![]()
Just 'cause he works, doesn't mean he's off the hook!!
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
When FH puts his foot in his mouth. That is usually that cause!
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
we dont really argue, the only time is if i fall asleep at like 10pm after getting a good 9hrs sleep each night, but that doesnt even bother him much.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
MONEY! That's about it.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
dumb things like grocery shopping and that Im too loud![]()
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
Wacky you loud ![]()
never ![]()
I thought you would have said b/c you are wacky ![]()
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
that too shamma![]()
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
We don't argue.
I complain, I yell and he says sorry.
Just the way I like it![]()
I complain, I yell and he says sorry.
Just the way I like it
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
We argue about how much time he spends on his computer. As soon as he walks in the door, he heads straight for the computer. He checks his e-mail, reads the sports scores, reads the news, and plays this retarded online game. He even has a T-Mobile Sidekick which is a phone but it can also access the internet. So when he's not on his computer at home, he's got a **** mobile one in his pocket!!! And meanwhile, there are dirty dishes sitting in the sink (his job).
Otherwise, we're pretty laid-back.
Otherwise, we're pretty laid-back.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
The only thing we fight about is not seeing each other. Everything else stems from that. We both want to see each other as much as possible but usually it is just once a month and it is frustrating! But I am moving soon so it will change shortly.
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
He's a complainer, but we don't argue that much anymore. He complains that he doesn't get enough ![]()
and he complains that I leave my shoes all over the place but thats about it. When we first moved in together I once told him that he could make complaining an olympic event, he does it so much, but I think I broke him of that now!!
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
we don't argue much...but its usually one of 2 things...
1. he doesn't listen to what I say (he says he has bad hearing...whatever) and then 5 minutes later he will ask me a question...when i already told him the answer!!!
2. I get make-up powder on the sink...that bothers him...but when I am always late in the morning - I foget to wipe it off...
so I can't complain...we do pretty well together
1. he doesn't listen to what I say (he says he has bad hearing...whatever) and then 5 minutes later he will ask me a question...when i already told him the answer!!!
2. I get make-up powder on the sink...that bothers him...but when I am always late in the morning - I foget to wipe it off...
so I can't complain...we do pretty well together
Member since
Re: What do you and you FH argue about??
We RARELY fight and if we do it is quick and painless. I do feel some fighting coming on soon now that the wedding is getting closer, with so much to do AND needing to repaint and fix our (mine, soon to be ours) apartment![]()
