What do you do if someone didn't send in their RSVP...

Kimbiz1 Posted: Mar 27, 2009 03:05 PM

What do you do if someone didn't send in their RSVP...

...to the eparty?

See I wanted to use the names they put on the response cards on the pre printed thank yous that will be attached to the favor. We're not having assigned seats, it's a cocktail party. FHs family is infamous for gloming favors.

Anyway, 4 violators are on FHs side and 1 on mine. The major one is his mom. I think she didn't send it in because she is going to bring her married man friend as her date. This will fuel the fire between her and her ex, my FFIL.

What can I do? Also I did post a nasty comment on another website but luckily I deleted it before it was seen.

HELP?!

Thanks

Lsorrent Posted: Mar 27, 2009 03:11 PM

Re: What do you do if someone didn't send in their RSVP...

I would give them a call and just say you were wondering if they received the invite. It's entirely possible it got lost in the mail. I had 3 of my invites get lost in the mail.

Kimbiz1 Posted: Mar 27, 2009 03:16 PM

Re: What do you do if someone didn't send in their RSVP...

We confronted one of his cousins and he was like, well you know we're coming and I told him, no response card, no favor.

The other being his mom, I've been asking him to do it. It didn't get lost in the mail because it was hand delivered. I'm afraid of a drunk text this weekend.

Lsorrent Posted: Mar 27, 2009 03:22 PM

Re: What do you do if someone didn't send in their RSVP...

Ugh, sorry. Honestly, I'd just make up the favor for them and leave it be. I wouldn't cause too much drama over this one. And BELIEVE me, I'm always one to confront people with their mistakes. But I'm quickly learning that with the wedding, I have to pick my battles. I wouldn't let this be one of them.