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what do you do when a guest ADDS someone to the RSVP?

suven Posted:

what do you do when a guest ADDS someone to the RSVP?

As most of you now, I am still waiting for approx 92 people to RSVP.

Some of fi's first cousins were not invited because of an OLD family feud. But, others called on their behalf and we extended verbal invites. We asked another cousin to account for them on his RSVP card.

Well, one of the 'add-on' cousins is coming with A GUEST. It says:

John Doe and guest (daughter)

But, we don't know WHICH daughter, what her name is, or how old she is.

I made the age cutoff to be 20 years old. We REALLY think that this girl is only around 15 years old. What do we do? I have my own first cousins who were not invited who are 15 years old...
nsgraham Posted:

Re: what do you do when a guest ADDS someone to the RSVP?

I think you need to call, find out which daughter, and explain the situation.

good luck!
neesiepie Posted:

Re: what do you do when a guest ADDS someone to the RSVP?


Posted by nsgraham

I think you need to call, find out which daughter, and explain the situation.

good luck!



i agree with Nadine...call.
eroxgirl Posted:

Re: what do you do when a guest ADDS someone to the RSVP?

I'm in this situation myself today. You need to give them a call and lay down the law!!!! I'm so sick of people imposing themselves on me and this wedding...don't let them do it to you!

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