what do you think?

what do you think?

married b4 the wedding? keeping it hush hush!

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Personally, I'm not too crazy about it only because it would drive me nuts making sure I don't slip up or mention anything.

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We might do it for insurance reasons. I dont see why not but, it might be hard to keep it a secret.

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Believe me I am a little worried of it slipping out but we thought long and hard about it ... i am currently unemployed and therefore no benefits... plus the job that i would be starting in january is the same career as my fiance and it would be the same insurance if i claim i do not need it then it would save us some money as well!

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I wish. Im pretty sure that fh will think that we have to have the 600 person wedding first. Where did u elope?

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no where yet ... we just went to townhall to get our liscence .... we just thought that it would be a good idea b/c we found out if i start out not claiming insurance they will pay me additional for not using it. And right now every little bit helps right? Especially when we both have extremely large families as is and when it does come time for our religious ceremony it would be a little extra cash that could be used!

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Every little bit really helps. and hey like you said you'd have some left over cash you can use.

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so do you think we had a good idea...