What have you learned about yourself in the wedding planning process?
bluegreen08
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What have you learned about yourself in the wedding planning process?
I apparently like simple and traditional .. who knew?
Future Mulligan
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that i am totally indecisive
all the things that i thought i wanted - i keep changing my mind about.....dress styles, veil styles, hair styles, jewelry, flowers, it seems like EVERYTHING that i would have thought i wanted before being engaged is different now......
and i can't believe some of things i've said about money.....like, 'its only another $1,000.00'
i think im losing it!
Oh and i realized just how great FH is! He is AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING
Colleen214
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that I don't really rely on other people's opinions to make decisions and that for the most part, simple and timeless things are always better. I've also learned that FH is really amazing and supportive of everything I've wanted to do for the wedding and willing to help in whatever way possible.
I've also learned that having a long island wedding is really expensive!!!!!!!
little34
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That I am more creative then I thought... just some of the ideas that have been coming to me is surprising sometimes...in a good way!
ChristineAaron08
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I cant stick to a freakin budget- lol
And I have expensive tastes that simply cannot be fuffilled.
Jayla127
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Before I got engaged I had sooooooooooo many ideas. But, now that I am my mind went blank.
woobie113007
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I am constantly changing my mind I worry about what others will think I can be quite b!tchy...LOL I have little patients I can go on................
ratherbealeper
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that my FH and I work ridiculously well together as a team... and just because i CAN make everything myself doesnt mean i HAVE to make everything myself.
ligirlz
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Posted by Colleen214
that I don't really rely on other people's opinions to make decisions and that for the most part, simple and timeless things are always better. I've also learned that FH is really amazing and supportive of everything I've wanted to do for the wedding and willing to help in whatever way possible.
I've also learned that having a long island wedding is really expensive!!!!!!!
Totally agree on not relying on what other people think. I learned just to ignore that and go on. I also learned that I am more patient than I thought when it came to doing projects or waiting for things to come. Usually I am pushy and want it done fast.
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Posted by ligirlz
Posted by Colleen214
that I don't really rely on other people's opinions to make decisions and that for the most part, simple and timeless things are always better. I've also learned that FH is really amazing and supportive of everything I've wanted to do for the wedding and willing to help in whatever way possible.
I've also learned that having a long island wedding is really expensive!!!!!!!
Totally agree on not relying on what other people think. I learned just to ignore that and go on. I also learned that I am more patient than I thought when it came to doing projects or waiting for things to come. Usually I am pushy and want it done fast.
Me too. I know exactly what I want and don't ask for opinons. That's why I like to do all my wedding shopping alone or with Mom.
dewdrop
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i learned that i have an ever evolving 'bridentity'
bluegreen08
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Posted by Future Mulligan
that i am totally indecisive
all the things that i thought i wanted - i keep changing my mind about.....dress styles, veil styles, hair styles, jewelry, flowers, it seems like EVERYTHING that i would have thought i wanted before being engaged is different now......
and i can't believe some of things i've said about money.....like, 'its only another $1,000.00'
i think im losing it!
Oh and i realized just how great FH is! He is AMAZING AMAZING AMAZING
See, I already knew i was indecisive!
Brian and Marie
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Posted by ChristineAaron08
I cant stick to a freakin budget- lol
And I have expensive tastes that simply cannot be fuffilled.
ME TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And I may have a minor case of OCD!
meli722
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to rely on myself and FH when it comes to final decisions/final idea choices, because it is our wedding and not anyone elses.
nmagel
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that I don't handle stress well.
AndRecKy
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im too impulsive!
Cacarina
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I am pretty much the most indecisive person EVER!
FutureMrsGK
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That Im a control freak when I have my mind set on something
That I cant stick to a budget
That my dream is finally coming true! Not a lot of peoples dreams ever do come true, This one is.
joan_db
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Patient, patient, patient its a very stressful process. I also leaned to be frank and direct when taking to people.
tlp123
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Posted by Future Mulligan
and i can't believe some of things i've said about money.....like, 'its only another $1,000.00'
Isn't it amazing!?!?! i never thought I would say that either. I really have to examine my financial maturity, priorities, and will-power!